Ever since oral sex has come into my life, I've had a problem...I don't like to cum in the guys mouth. I can't figure it out...because it usually feels soooooo good, but I always have to stop them before I orgasm. Does any other girl have this problem? I just feel really uncomfortable doing it. It makes me feel...selfish. Like, he's not getting any satisfaction out of this, so that makes me feel really crappy. Guys, do you feel unsatisfied by going down on a girl to make her orgasm? When I go down on a guy, it definitely turns me on to have him cum in my mouth...so I can't figure out why I have a double standard. It bugs me...of course I haven't had THAT in awhile, but....it crossed my mind when reading another thread...
I get turned on by eating the girl's pussy! Partly because there is a beatiful pussy in my face, but mostly I love to get a girl off. The harder she cums, the more I get turned on, even if I dont get anything in return. My satisfaction is her satisfaction. So yes I love for a girl to cream in my mouth!
talk to him. make him swear he'll tell the truth about how he feels. say that you feel selfish and ask if he minds going down on you. promise him that he'll get a very nice reward! he'll be begging to go down on you! you do it to him why shouldn't he do it to you?
I'm confused about the "cum in the guys mouth" part... are you talking about female ejaculation? Like, you're nervous about "squirting" in his mouth? Or are you saying you deny yourself oral orgasms entirely? As a guy (albeit a "nice guy," so I can't speak for selfish lovers out there), I can honestly say I love performing cunnilingus and enjoy giving head as much as receiving. I think you're deluding yourself if you don't believe guys get anything from making a woman writhe and wriggle and lose control the way using one's tongue only can. It's quite a turn-on and, in my experience, makes her that much more eager to jump me. Granted, I sorta prefer bringing my girlfriend to orgasm by making love to her, but oral is definitely a course on the menu regardless (if I have anything say in the matter).
Personally I enjoy it. I like it when a girl cums in my mouth. It's hot! But if your that concerened about it, talk to your B-friend. You dont want this in the back of your head during the expereience.
my fiance absolutely loves it when I cum in his mouth! he says he loves the way it tastes, and he loves just making me cum while doing that, I really think guys like it, I had a problem with it when I was younger but I've been with the same guys for 5 years so I'm extreamly comfortable with him. The first guy I was with couldn't even make me orgasim during sex, I really think it makes a huge differance on who you're with and if you feel comfortable. maybe it wont matter once you're with someone for a while.
Just to clear this up...I don't have a boyfriend...and it's never been because the guy doesn't like it in the past... And I do entirely deny oral orgasms entirely.
You silly girl - you should cum and cum and cum again!!!!! I personally enjoy giving my partners at least one orgasm before we even start with the full on sex part... Have your orgams, enjoy it - it'll turn him on something cronic, he'll be rock hard, he'll fuck you silly, and you'll get your second, third or even forth orgams of the night
I've had women say similar things to me. Not about the selfishness thing. But this one woman in particular, I remember when I could tell that she was just about to cum, she made me stop.
lucky you, i'm stuck with coursework til the end of may *sighs*cant even think of going out anywhere!
