Hello, I was wondering what you see in relationships for me? I have someone in mind that I like but I do not know if he feels the same way. He seems to be a bit older then I am and he has blonde hair and his name starts with the letter J... I was wondering if you see anything? I just see him around never really talked to this guy but I notice sometimes that he would glance my way every once in awhile. thanks for your time...Peachkiss24
Hi Peachkiss24 Part of the games we play within ourselves are asking for a much deeper awareness in who we are. Making new friends is a plus, and educational on many levels. We choose the lessons we wish to confront, and deal with and often find the relationships we look for, or catch our eye, or draw us in, are our best teachers. Do not get lost in the emotions, and guessing. There are no forevers unless its change you are talking about. Knowing who you are inside, and out will let you know what the connection will offer you, or take from you, and return with a a greater, and deeper beauty for embracing the changes, and letting them go. Dam, nothing seems easy these days, and maybe should not be. What do I see...This connection is what you make of it. Ask why you want to persue this. ask why he catches your eye. ask what your expectations, and attachments are. Ask yourself if you need to, or just want to embrace the balance of being whole, and one inside the choices you make. So yes you both will speak to each other. Yes you both will understand that where that takes you is just choices made for what ever reasons you both choose. Trust your heart, and soul, and do not give away ""YOU"" to be whole or connected. When ever someone gives away who they are to be connected they end up loosing all they thought they had gained. Know who you are, and any relationship, or friendship will be an adventure. In this with an open hand experiences will teach you far more than you dared to sometimes ask.
Hey Old Crone, thank you for taking the time to respond... But does this mean that he may try to use me and that it may not be a good idea to be in a relationship with him?
It only means LIFE IS AN OPPORTUNITY and what you make of it is your choice. When you are true to yourself you are true to the opportunity that comes, embraces, teaches you and lets you find your way inside and out. He is just a reflection of your own doubts and desires. This is not about HIM but about the you in him and the places you fantize or dream of and yet fear and doubt at the same time.
Hey Old crone, That guy who I said I liked..I found out today he has a girlfriend..I had read it on his profile on line it says that "its his first serious relationship WOW" I havent talked to him at all yet because I dont see him much..If he has a girlfriend then how can we become anything? Is this true do you see anyone around him at all? thanks again
