Me and a girl im with at the moment, we like each other very much and both want to have full sex together and feel the intimacy. She hasnt had sex for over a year and has had problems fitting me inside. We are both not wanting to hurt each other. Her problem is getting better all the time and is so close to getting me inside. The problem now is, once she has been jerking me to get me hard, when we move into the right position and she guides me with her hand, i seem to lose my hardness slightly, in less than a minute, then im not hard enough to go in and she doesnt want to force me and hurt me. Sometimes when im with her, i dont think that it is getting as hard and as big as it can if im playing around in bed by myself. And i think it being like that is just whats needed, because she needs me to be slightly harder to make the final push inside. And i think that i dont lose it as quickly. Its never a rock hard standing out one that will just stay like that for a while. What can we do about this, its really frustrating us both now. I should say, I have never had sex before.
try to get her to relax as much as possible then she'll open up more. if she's worried about hurting either of you then there is no chance she'll fit you in. try lubrication?
Sounds like you guys should spend more time on foreplay. Give her a nice lickin downtown and insert a finger or two while she plays with you. Do a 69 type thing or at least just spend some time exploring each other.
Yeah man, lick that pussy till you cant lick no more, then give it a go. Natural lubrication is your best friend.
It sounds like your both nervous about it and thats why you're both having trouble becoming fully aroused. Try and relax more when you're getting down to it and don't put too much pressure on yourself. It'l happen you just got to chill out! Also get some lube,which will help for her! Good luck!
