~Greetings All~ I just want to give a warning not listened to enough (as least by me). About a month ago I was slipped Rohypnol at a bar I was at. I had no idea what was going on, I thought I had too much to drink so I went out to my car where I passed out. I only have vague memories and nothing concrete to convict anyone. The day after I was in a lot of pain (nothing like if one was to have enjoyable sex). So I went to the ER. That is when I tested positive for roofies. I may or may not have left my drink, I do not remember. Please, let this serve as a WARNING from one woman to another. Watch your drink and do not go to a bar alone (as I so foolishly did). I can happen to you. It did to me, and I never thought it possible. Thank you.
happened to me this school year. went to a bonfire and drinks were going around, went to one of the people's houses with someother guys and girls. played drinking games. a guy got me another drink and the next thing I remembered after that was waking up naked in a bed, no one was there, there was cum on the sheets and handcuffs on the bed next to me. Don't know who did it just got my clothes on and left. Step 2: watch whoever makes your drink. Step 3: go to places with at least one person you know who will watch your back. There were other people around but none of them knew me.
shit. You women have my empathy for surviving the second most cowardly attacks. I will NOT drink booze in public because of rohypnol. Even my water is capped.
Hell, it can happen to guys too, (not necessarily with rape in mind, but robbery). Happened to a guy I knew.
I'm sorry that this happened. What is this world coming to? Every woman I know has either been raped, or has had something of this nature happen to them. All I can say is BE CAREFUL and trust NO ONE, if you go to the bathroom...buy a new drink.
all i have to say is im a 29 year old man, and no mater where i go, i always always watch my drink. i pour em myself at party, i never take one from someone else, and im used to being a poor alcoholic, so its hard. when i piss at a bar, i dont care what you think, my beer goes with me. most dudes are gay to begin with so guys have to be careful too, but little girls .. . . yall should watch out, no matter who youre with. i known girls who were raped by their brothers best friends . . . by the way, where can i get some ruphenol?
a few times guys have gone a little too far but the scariest was in freshman year. my brothers friend who was a senior (everyone loved him) asked me out on date. i wasnt interested in him at all but i said yes because i didnt want to let him down (stupid i know). we went to the movies and about halfway through the movie he kept groping me and stuff. i was so nervous so i just sat there and didnt move. he looked at me and was like "what the hell. i thought u liked me." i barely even knew the guy and thats what i told him. anways after our date he asked me if i wanted to go back to his house. i told him i would rather just go home but he pulled into his driveway anyway. in his car he kept trying to do stuff so i got out. i called my brother to come get me. the next monday in school he had the nerve to ask me if i wanted to hang out with him again.
I was raped by a friend while he was on drugs and so messed up that he thought he could just do whatever, and I couldn't even get him to stop while I was sober much less had I had drinks on top of that. One reason I won't go to parties and drink is because I know I let my inhibitions down after just one drink, and when I get into forced sexual situations, I freeze and drinking would probably make it even worse. Not that I have anything against anyone who drinks, but it's just a situation that I try to avoid because I hear all the time about stuff like that happening at even high school parties, which just scares the crap out of me. Whenever I DO eventually go to parties, my solution is to always have a gay guy somewhere with me watching out for me. That way I can tell creepy guys he's with me and if anything fishy goes on, he can help out. But I really don't like alcohol in the 1st place so maybe that's all the better for me. Too many guys like to take advantage of drunk girls, and then there are the especially evil few guys who will slip them something. Eeep.
Everyone has to be careful. Guys and girls,because there are crazies everywhere,looking to do all sorts of things. I have had my share of sleazy guys trying stuff,especially while I was drunk. I think most girls have. I knew a guy too,that got way too drunk at a bar one night and ended up getting a motel room with a strange woman. When he came to the next day,everything he had was gone,including his clothing he had been wearing!
when your under the age to even know what a peinis is and your mums best friends son (whos like a brother to you) gets you to do sexual favourse to him.... ... you learn to never ever fully trust a man again.... or trust anyone no matter how close you think they are.
Flessy... I know how you feel, I have these really vauge memories of the very same thing happening to me when I was four and he was about 12 or 13... he used to ask me to touch him... I doesnt bother me as much... but I do wish it never happened
yea totally. it happned from 2 differenmt guys. both friends of my mums kids. One used to get me to touch him and touch me... the other would make me have sex with him. the first one wass a lot older than me (dont know how much) so he knew what he was doing, the second i always wonder about because he's only a year or two older from what i remember
My friend had it happen to her.. But she left the bar before it affected her to much.. Ended up crashing her car and almost killing another Driver... I will never leave my drink unattened.. If i do I order a new one
this is why I usually just get shots, or else get bottled drinks that the bartender opens infront of me and I don't let go of. I don't even leave water unattended - if I don't finish it right away, I get a new cup.
I was drugged as well. It was the scariest thing that has ever happened to me in my entire life. I was lucky enough to be at the bar with about five or six other guy friends and I made it home alright, they just assumed I had way too much to drink and put me to bed. All I remember is sitting down for another beer after a game of pool, and waking up at 3am on my bedroom floor with wet pants(I had peed myself). I was so confused, I thought that I was still at the bar and that I had actually fallen asleep on the bathroom floor of the bar and everyone had left and forgotten me there. This was during the summer time, and the next day at school it was impossible for me to get warm. I had way too many layers of clothes on for a sunny day, and I still shivered uncontrollably for hours on end.
I have not had that happen but drink before I go out because of the horror stories I have heard, my sypathy to you ladies and gents.
This is soooooooooooooooooooooo scary! I have never heard from anyone in my area this has happend to, but I have always been careful, not ask anyone unknown to get me drinks, and I usually drink bottled stuff anyway.... oh my god! My prayers are with everyone this has happend to. May the evil ones go to hell for that!
