I usually like to take control so he doesn't have to move. Whether I'm on top or he's behind. That way I control when he goes off most of the time. copper
I thrust mutually and do kegels..just whatever feels right at the time. and no, it doesnt take a lot of effort. I just kinda go with the flow and it's always amazing.
Yes, I thrust. I also do my kegel exercises on him occassionally. Yes, it came naturally -- I probably didn't do it the first few times I had sex, but I was nervous and all of that, so I wasn't really letting myself get into it (no orgasm or anything). But, if you're really into it, I don't see how you could NOT thrust in time with him. As for being synchronized, unless I was thinking too much about it (trying to enjoy it but not really into it) or was really really drunk, I've always just fallen right into synch (or guided him to take my lead, if I wanted him to slow down or speed up!). If you're not in synch, I'd guess you're just not really that into it.
mutual thrusting is a must! when im on the bottom, ill grab his hips and start goin at it... it feels really close to me being on top
I'm confused, as opposed to just lying there? And you can squeese and thrust at the same time. If my boyfriend and I aren't in sync at first, we just slow down and get it right.
When you get the right beat, it's awesome. I just love the sound of crotches slapping together paired with moaning and whimpering DD