i've looked at diagrams and stuff, but i'm embarrassed to say that i dont really know where mine is. any ideas to help me find it?
try www.clitical.com - their anatomy section, plus some masturbation and for-beginners stuff... it's a really good informative site.
thats not something to be embarrassed about. i didnt know that... my ex-boyfriend showed me where it was, the first time we had sex... but i dont really know how to explain it to you, sorry... but dont be embarrassed!!!
it's a little button-like nub at the topmost part of your vagina. it's also the most sensitive part. if you rub it, it will swell and harden a bit, making it a little larger.