Where does the actually connection come. I can't find the logical connection between the two, but at the same time I cannot deny its existance. Where is the connection between sexuality and love?
If you want to have sex with a specific person, it's love. If you'd happily replace that person with someone who looked exactly the same but was a bit more easy, it's not.
yeah, exactly. if you are just really horny and want a good fuck, with anyone that's there and remotely attractive, then maybe it's just sex. If you want to be with one person specifically, and you want to be with them for more than just their appearance then maybe it's more