lol Well I am close to it ..that age ... and I do have 3 of them so far ..cats ... egad ... I love this post .. becuase I am familiar .. just ended a 9 mo relationship .. I cant seem to get over the pain of it all ... but he was younger ... oh well my bad
I'm 16, and it's not so much I worry about not finding love, it's that it hurts so much to lose it when you did have it.
But if you play it like a game dosent that mean you use people or people use you? I don't like "playerz" cause they go around and stop caring,
Nolan, you seem fairly open minded, pretty reflective, and I like your demeanor. You can choose to put yourself out there and be open to intimate relationships with others, or you can hide everything from everyone. Most people tend to get lonely after a while, though. One thing I can tell you that helped me out... every relationship is an incredible learning experience on so many different levels. Just figuring out if someone's worth entering a relationship takes some experience. I think you'll be fine.
lol ..playrz .. yeh .. they stick with you until they feed their addiction with you and then seek another addiction .. lol .. so how does one spot a player ahead of time ... ?....
I hide, Whats wrong w/ that, I can live like that, always have till now and nows f'ed up so w's wrong w/ hiding
I never said there was anything wrong with it. I'm one of those people that don't like others to know the whole story when it comes to me and what's going on in my head. Then again, it'd sure be nice to be with that perfect someone that relates, understands, and is actually interested enough to give a shit. You might think that's a bit of a contradiction, that it might create problems, and you'd be right, but it's something I'm aware of and am working on. Take a look around, alot of people convince themselves that they're happy being alone when there's nothing they crave more than companionship. They want that intimacy that comes with a relationship, but are afraid to admit it because they've been hurt, or feel inadequate, or whatever; so they have to convince the rest of the world that others don't effect them. They're going to be in for some depressing times. The other end of the spectrum are the people who are genuinely happy being alone. They aren't looking for somebody else to "complete" them because they're already complete. Those are the people who have a hell of a lot to offer.
True dat but how can I be at "the other end of the sprectrum" the one that is complete and has lots to offer.?
no no no love isn't bad.. Love is like Oxygen.. love is a many splended thing.. love lifts us up to where we belong.. All you need is love!!.. so don't let some lil Jr.high break up ruine you ... becuse basicly JR.HIGH dating is BS... :: the greatest thing you'l ever learn is to just to love and be loved in return :: Might sound weird comming from me.. lol i'm kinda baked right now.. and I sure can't stop my mind from thinking!! HOLY SHIT>> THERE ARE FIRE WORKS OUT SIDE...
NO, love sucks, three people back me on this so far, why the fuck do we """""neeeeeeed""""""" Love? Bullshit
no one "needs" love, but it is human nature to seek the affections of another person. It's ok to want that. I think it is fair to say sometimes people will sacrifice happiness in order to avoid being alone.
Love is the beginning of this final revelation: a final part in which everything is made clear and no questions or surprises remain ....love is everything and if we use it unconditionally in all that we do then the world is a better place ...but "attaching" oursleves to a person and calling/labeling that love ....that is false ..the world needs love not attachments and labels ...I think that its "honor" that many are in question of ...?
