jeez! what a big age difference! That guy should have his head examined, and you need to move on. Of course you will find someone your own age who will love you.
Trust me, you don't need a psychic to help you out on this one. I haven't met this person so I don't know the kind of connection you two may have, but I always shy away from relationships where one is old enough to be the parent of the other. It may work in the beginning, but I think that after a while, one will get tired of each other because they won't be able to keep up. Short-term, possible; long-term, not likely. Either way, I'm not sure it would be a healthy relationship. At best, keep it as a friendly encounter with no sex or sexual contact aside from kissing, for at least 6 months to a year. After all, if he truly respects and loves you, he'll be okay with it. GL on whichever path you choose.
You could always have hope that it would work out.... on the other hand why is it not working out now? More than likely, by reading your post, it won't work out! Not that that's a bad thing... Company is good but why have the DRAMA? WHY feel bad? You should never have to chase a man unless it's naked through your house ! ;O) go get'em honey you're lovely! Jesu
ha ha.....this is funny. i've been trying out my psychicness and it works quite well... before this came up n the screen i put my head in my hands and saw this....okay....you need space...you need to tell this guy to leave you alone...it is too likely that he is the type of person to tell you what to do. our mother is in the way...you need to tell her to get out of the way too. and its definately right that you don't see him. he is trouble...you're mother is right and you should thank her. he would be verymanipulative if you were to try and meet with him...i think you have wquite alot of sace between yourself and descisions that you mae so i think you are safe enough to realise that this is was the right choice, and you can now move on. he's not anything to get involved with you are well protected by your mother, you might feel too much so, but trust me, it is brave of her to step in and ask you to stop seeing him and she is right...ialso think tha you actually feel relieved that you can't see him anymore becuase he was starting t make you feel pressured or uncomfortable? anywa..if he is annoying you tell him in no uncertain terms..and this is important..that you tell him with no uncertaintty..that you are not interestd in seeing him anymore. make sure he is left with no doubt that you will not be pursuing thi relationship and if he needs a reason tell him 'i feel too young' hope this helped....! xxxxxxxxxxxxpecae. by the way your mum seems very cool and stronng woman..
I was in a similar situation a while ago. she was like six years older and I was 19 and 20 in the time I knew her. it never really turned into anything serious because she was married but still when you think you're in love nothing's gonna change your mind. I don't know what advice anyone can really offer you. I say look at the whole situation with him and make a decision. don't mind your parents if they disagree (at least I wouldn't). I noticed you're still really young but if you think this guy is who you want to spend your life with then it's worth at least trying, even at the price of a broken heart....umm, I dunno, shit man, I'm bad at giving advice but just follow your heart
what i got as 'psychic' infprmation. was that you're too young for the man. he is not right for you. i saw.. a crepp, who was stalking you. following you. and i saw your mum. getting in the way of your choices. this is before iknew what your problems were. so you can trust that 'insight' or not. the thing i felt was that you neede to tell them both.. to leave you alone. but also. i'd be very grateful to her for 'butting in' there she just might have saved you froma potential wiredo. i think you'll find love for yourself when you admit some of these things inside... that you were naiive with this older man. and that your mum really protected you. i just hope this man has taken a step back and checked his intentions. getting together with someone your age at his age... is a creepy thing to do. no matter what he says or does. its still creepy. thats the impression i got anyway. i saw a creepy guy, hanging around..someone who disturbed your sapce. anda forceful mother standing in the way of him. and you. behind them both. feeling like you had no power to choose what you wanted in the situation. i think you'll get over this and later copme to realise just how great your nmother was for interfering. and eventually you'll be able to make your own choices. that are based on your own best interests. and you will have the power to choose what you want,/ who you want in your life. instead of the other way round.
look, i think this discussion should end here. ive told you many times now, either pursue this relationship or put it away and move on. this isnt based on if hes a potential psycho, its based on if you feel hes the right one for you. if you truly believe that you and him were meant to be, then stop waiting for a divine intervention and chase the mother down. but if you feel that because of his inaction to contact you, your relationship cannot continue then dont bother with him. he too has either moved on or is waiting as you do. personally, eight months now is a very long time. lovers should never lose contact for such a stretch. but even so, seeing how he is unwilling to act, its your decision: stand up, or stand down love can and will wait for you two but whether or not you want that love anymore is completely up to you.
look, ive told you so many times, but since you seem to listen to the replies on your forum more than me, here i am. (yes this is a reponse to question 3) i havent known you for very long and we only really started talking halfway into our school semester, however i do have a very good understanding of how you feel. dont stress yourself on wondering if you will find someone to love and love you. there will always be someone out there, not specifically for you but out there nonetheless. sometimes love can be found in very odd places, and in very unexpected people. dont focus on who you want as the perfect guy, just focus on how you want your man to make you FEEL. go out there, be confident, and most of all be strong. rejection can be tough to deal with trust me i know (carrots... hehe... inside joke). however, it can also give you a lot of love experience, it can help you realise what you really want and what kind of person you really want to be with. remember, love is a feeling not a sense. stop looking with your eyes, and start searching with your soul. all i can think of for now, ill patronize you at school.
