i used to LOVE SEX. i cheated on my ex boyfreind at least 3 times because he lived long distance and i was stupid (please, dont leacture me about this right now, i've already worked this out). but i used to try to make it so i wouldnt be horny so i wouldnt cheat on him. but that hardly worked (i used to think about sex as much as guys). i didnt care if they were ugly or not, they were cute enough for me and i'd do somthing with him. now i have a new boyfriend, and im just not into it. i dont know why. maybe its because he used to be mean to me and i just didnt feel horny for him anymore, or maybe i just got tireed of him, but the truth is we've been dating since sept of 2003, and i only felt sexua;ly attracted to him for like 5 months, then it just stopped. i never want to do anything, and he always wants to do somthing. he respects my rights not to, but he knows bhow much i used to do it and he's wondering why i dont want to do stuff with him. (by the way, he's never, NEVER, had a girfriend before me) it could also be because he's conservative and wont let me drink/smoke/do drugs and i've been wanting to, so i jsut dont want to do that. oh, i dont know, im only 17. why the fuck dont i want sex anymore? i was listeneing to the radio once, and they said you should start having sex at 17, well, i only wanted sex from like 13-16, then i wasnt in the mood anymore. i miss that good rough sex! any suggestions?
Horny jokes aside, I would just like to contribute my opinion that it isn't right for him to 'not let you' do drugs or drink or smoke. It is certainly fair for him to ask you not to do them -around- him, however it is -your- body and -your- life. He may express concern or whatever, but the second a guy 'won't let you' do something, he should be let go - in my opinion, anyway. Maybe you do resent that and thats why you're experiencing this?
