I have no idea how this started happening, it was never like this in the begining. I can not cum until my bf cums. It seems weird, since men usually can't go too long after they climax, but my man is a trooper and always tries to be sure I cum. I am just wondering if any other women have this same "style". It's like it takes knowing he's getting off to get me off. Any thoughts on this?
yeah... in a way I need him to cum, as the feeling really arouses me even more. sometimes I can come without him first, but is a whole different kind of organsm. A lot more selfish in a way. You know that it is biologically meant to be that women are more likely to cum after the man does? not because nature is not being nice to women, but to make sure, that the man cums in the women before they stop, and they can reproduce!
yeah but a woman can have multiple orgasms while a man can't so I think the woman should have a couple before teh guy shoots his load just cause it's better that way greg
It's perfectly normal for women not to orgasm before a man does, and thus nothing to complain about. It would be "fairer" for the man to wait ages and have their orgasm after about three hours, but if you think that's going to happen you've obviously never owned a penis. They're not big on fairness.
I don't need him to cum for me to be able to. when my ex and I had sex I would cum a few times, but right when he did, it was always the best.
I don't need to have him physically cumming for me to be able to climax, but if my partner is not enjoying themself, I will not get off. It's the thrill of pleasuring someone while stimultaneously being pleasured that makes sex so arousing for me.