well my boyfriend hit me once acidently, but he apologised profusly after... he didnt mean it, he was angry and went to hit a wall but got me.... And my best friend slaps me around a bit, but thats because i go strange sometimes and he is trying to get me out of it.... hes a good guy
My boyfriend hitted me once too. We where in a huge fight and i wanted to say a thing, but he kept on talking and talking, so eventually I screamed his name and he slaped me in the face. We got over the fight, he apologized and now we'r a year and three months together, but I willnever forget it.
Nope.. My ex locked me in the house and wouldnt let me leave... Screaming at me.. I thought he was gonna hit me.. So I grapped the frying pan and got in his face.. Made him get out of the way and unlock the door so I could leave...
yup. And I've hit back. It only happened once. I'm trying to stay away. Why? too long of a story there. I now know why women get trapped in a cycle. I have this guy begging for my forgivness and crying to come home. I love him ,but I love mysef more. It's a very difficult siuation and I could see how someone could cave easliy and go back.
Long Story... Ok. A woman I used to live with and I shared a place with another couple. First the other dude moved out on his girl and then my girl moved out on me. Problem was the girls stayed friends. One night they come back to the apartment drunk as hell. I went downstairs, saw who it was and went back upstairs. My ex girl comes storming upstairs and throws a beer bottle at my head (she missed). Then she starts screaming about why in the hell I wont talk to her and why did I go back upstairs when she came in. I asked her what she expected from me since SHE moved out and left ME. She got pissed and came after me. She tried to punch me but I caught her hand and backed away. Then she charged me and wrapped her hands around my throat and started to choke me. So I had no choice but to knock her off of me. That was the only time I have ever had to get physical with a female. In self defense.
I am a magnet for abuse. I have been hit by my drunk ex's, had projectiles thown at my head....mostly because of disagreements.
yes, once last summer. i was screaming and crying and it was the only time in my life i threatened to kill myself because of something horrible that happened. my ex and he was also my ex at the time slaped me because i went on like this for hours and couldn't bring myself out of it not even valium helped but him slapping me shocked me so much that i was in reality again. we werent fighting and he wasnt upset with me so it wasnt even an issue because he had good intentions and it wasnt hard at all just enough to shock me. i slapped him a few times when i was very young its not something i would ever even have the urge to do to anyone now or in the future no matter how upset i got.
NEVER!!!! And if I ever did, I would get the hell out of that relationship! No one desearves to be hit.....ever! I would walk away from the situation before I ever thought about getting violent. Just my opinion......
yes, but only once, my ex husband was coming down off a drunk, beat the hell out of me, his fingerprints were literally on my face and the other side of my face was swollen for a week...after he did it he went to work...I changed the locks, called my parents and his mother. I put all his stuff in his moms trunk and called a lawyer...I have never lived with him since...that was 15 yrs ago
No, my husband has never once hit me. I however have swatted at him a few times in the past I must admit. Nothing serious at all though.
Jesus am I the only one to vote that I hit my girlfriend. That was something that could've destroyed me emotionally but it was ok. I took her out for a very expensive meal and payed for it all (leaving a huge hole in my wallet) to make up for it. We had split up not long before and she had just sent me a very abusive note, I had a go at her for it, everyone ganged up on me shouting and it was like my body decided to do it without consulting the rest of me first. It was pretty dire really - after I did that I just lay down at the floor at looked at the sky with all these people shouting their heads off at me which I just blanked out. Feck I hoped more people would be in the same situation as me but ok. It was wierd though, after that we became really good friends, I think it's because it showed her what I'd been trying to tell her - I'm human and have my limits, which were being exceeded. Blessings Sebbi
Yes, my ex was rather abusive. He used to spank me to see how red my ass would get. Or threaten to hit me with a belt. He only actually hit me with a belt once, I learned to obey him. I finally got out of that relationship and dated a much better guy. But my ex still threatens me. He has raped me (twice actually) and and continues to hit me. And whines a lot when I don't see him. It's more complicated than it sounds. For some reason, I have a problem letting him go. He was my first love, I have no idea why.
