Im having trouble getting rock hard, ready for intercourse. My girl is very nice, i really want her, she plays with me wiv her hand and has on many occassions managed to make me orgasm doing so. Although im never totally rock hard, or full capacity. She given me a blow job, but i never get rock hard, infact if anything lose my erection. Can anyone give me some advice on what i can do or she can do to get me very hard and not lose it quickly so we can engage in intercourse for the first time. We have tried many times and need some help
Sounds like a mental problem, either that or you are gay. Seriously, if she is attractive to you, it shouldent be a problem (unless you are like 80).
Your penis is flesh and blood, not rock. Hard enough to do the job is hard enough. Anal is the only thing that you need an unsusualy hard erection to do. Many positions require a little bendablility. You may have been reading too much porn. Don't worry, "hard as a rock" is as realistic and accurate as "stiff as a board." (get an 8ft 2X4 and see how stiff that is)
if you're worried about getting softer than at your most aroused, you could always look into cock rings
my boyfriend has the same problem too once in awhile. for him, it tends to happen because he worries about it too much. just focus on relaxing and being with your girl, it's more important than how hard your penis gets.
