Applespark & Yogi getting married tomorrow

Um, yeah. That makes a lot of sense.

 

Wow. Were you surprised?

I got pregnant 3 years after we were married. Two children later.... I'm done.

 

No, we weren't surprised really. We knew it was quite the possibility. But we had only been careless once, and that was the one time that did it! We had (surprisingly, because I was on the pill) been pregnant a year prior to that during our engagement but miscarried. It really did a number on me, even though at the time, neither one of us were ready for a baby. Anyway, I longed for another baby in the worst way, and my husband (then fiance) told me that in due time we would try again. Well, that one afternoon I guess he figured that he was ready to become a daddy because he wasn't careful. Nine months later, our oldest son was born.

 

Peanuts, on the topic of kids, we decided that when our oldest son was 3 years old, that we were ready to try again for another baby. Well, we got pregnant that same exact month, but I miscarried very early. We waited another three months to try again, and on the fourth month, we were pregnant again. This time, with twins! Talk about freaked out! *lol*

I'd love to have more kids really, but, it's just not in the cards for me. My body can't handle another pregnancy. I'm lucky to be alive as it as considering how bad I got the day after I had my twins.

Oh well, I cherish my three little ones that are here with me, I love those kids so much, I never thought I could love a child the way that I love them. Okay, I'm going to stop because I'm getting really emotional.

 

I'm sorry to hear about your miscarrage.

I didn't have any trouble getting pregnant. The first time was kind of a surprise. The second time I think I knew the second it happened. That exact day I was talking about baby names.

I love my boys in a way I never knew love was possible. They are sweet boys who adore me and their daddy. We adore them. Sure I get tired, exhausted, bored, emotional, moody, and a few others being home with them but it's only because I put so much into their well-being.

It's hard raising children. It has been for me anyway. I haven't had a whole lot of help.

In saying all that my boys are my heart. Not only am I teaching them about life they are also teaching me.

 

Best thing I've heard in a long time.

 

You really lost a baby? If you did, I'm terribly sorry. *damn, I'm being nice after I told you that I wouldn't be*

 

Yeah, my husband and I can get pregnant with a single shot, but unfortunately, we lost two of them.

It is hard raising children, it's one of the hardest jobs I think there is and I'm positive I'll be in for many challenges in the future! I wouldn't trade it for the world though. They have brought so much into our lives.

{{{Hugs mama}}}

 

lol got this one a few years late too. hay Ive had cyber sex with him too..what a kawinkydink...although he's much better in person. fuckin bitch..sriously ..what nerve some people have.

 

Yep, you're drunk.

 

You guys are still married right? If not we should get this thread deleted.

 

Are you still living in Hawaii? How is your lil' one?

 

He's good. I actually have three lil' ones now.

I don't live in Hawaii though. I live in Georgia, which is often called "the Hawaii of the southeastern United States"

 

Applespark lives in Hawaii.

How is your baby doing Boosh? How old is he now? Are you sleeping through the night yet?

 

Applespark lives in Hawaii? Awesome. Why didn't you say so before.

I'm doing ok. The baby is 10 weeks old now. He's fat and happy. I'm sleeping through the night just fine. My wife is waking up every 3 hours though. She's doing thing where you sleep when the baby sleeps.

I'm afraid to call the house most of the time because I never know when I'm going to wake her.

 

Yes we are still married. We lived in Hawaii for a year and we jsut moved back to California in May. We just got a place 2 weeks ago. It's been a long drawn out move but were getting settled

 

nope not married any more lol

 

How is your kid doing?

 

He's great. He's 9 now!! He's wonderful. It's a fun age .

 

That sounds like fun, my niece will be 3 September 22. She is getting so big. and it sounds like yours is too