Aww..lynsey i think i love you! LOL Personally I really dont care what happent to it once it leaves my body. And since I havent really addressed the real point of this thread of course I kiss my wife afterward.
the big deal is that you can give her bacterial infections. I got a bad bacterial thingie from someone who didn't was their hands after using the washroom and then prepared food for me, was in the hospital for half a week, with diarrhea to the point of being badly dehydrated. Surely not something anyone would wish on a SO
no, he doesnt expect me to SWALLOW it. If he did I think I would probably slap him... idk y but its just not my thing to swallow yeah if he goes down on me, he wont kiss me afterwards either...Personally I think hes just immature
Yeah - that's true, but I've seen oops, I mean TOLD, that in porn movies guys regularly go straight from anal into the girls mouth. A friend of mine collects movies where it's a threesome and the guy goes from one girls arse straight into the other girls mouth. Not my thing but it does happen - there must be some major arse cleaning going on before tape rolls...
As to kissing after a BJ - no big deal if it's just in the middle of foreplay but if it's a purely blowjob thing (like when you're working on the computer and she wants to give you a nice surprise) it's something else entirely. I have no great desire to taste sperm, I don't drink pee either.
I think it's really dumb, I get mad when guys do it. In some situations guys like it when you kiss them, which doesn't bother me. But usually guys that I'm with don't mind at all after I brush my teeth.
I've only had one girl ever swallow me and I kissed her right afterwards. There was remenants of my swimmers still in her mouth and it really didn't bother me at all. I'm very grateful everytime she takes me into her mouth while I orgasm as it feels fantastic and its comforting that she's not grossed out by it/me, so yeah my immediate reaction is to kiss her - I couldn't imagine not kissing her then.
if it's not your thing to swallow and it's not his thing to kiss him afterwards then you're not with the right person.
if he won't kiss you after that then don't give him head anymore... he's got some insecurities if he thinks it's dirty...cuz it is not
If I were you, I'd get an HIV test. I'm serious. I'd be suspicious of any guy who has that attitude. -- Skeeter
What a dick. You should write him off. That's ridiculous, if he expects you to blow him, he shouldn't bitch about kissing you afterwards. If you don't want to let him go, maybe you should lay off of blow jobs and tell him if he thinks it's so gross to kiss you afterwards, then you decided it's too gross to do it at all.
I agree with the posters who say don't do it anymore if he acts so childish... if its good enough to be in your mouth, it better be good enough for his, or he must think he is better than you. I would get him to go down on you, by saying whatever you need to to make it happen, then when you let him stop (make sure he spends a good amount of time there, and tell him exactly what to do.), then make him brush his teeth etc., refuse to kiss him, and then refuse to go down on him that night. If he does not see the double standard after that, I'd say he's a lost cause. I think he just needs to grow up a bit.... it sounds like he has some inhibitions that might be good to get him to lose. Good luck. Remember, he can either be a cunning linguist or a master debater, the choice is up to him.
