I'm getting the feeling that there are just some guys that don't find me attractive. (I know this sounds very vain.) I was walking by two Mexican guys and I spoke (You know, I said hey.) One spoke back and the other snickered at me. I admit that I have a unique style of dress but I still would have prefered if he had waited until I was out of earshot. It's starting to get to me and I don't know why. I get a lot of guys that are friendly and that speak to me but Mexican guys, for the most part, won't. Maybe you can tell me why.
dont let them get you feeling that way. you are beautiful for being unique and if they cant realize that that's their own loss.
there is this in my psy class that every time i say something he has this weird look onhis face like saying "what a stupid chick"...maybe i'm paranoid, but it seems he doesnt like me at all. i couldnt care less to be honest but now that you mention it i had that quite a lot.
i feel for ya i always dress uniquely but when evever someone trys to make a negative comment, i think 'what an insecure jerk' he's just afraid you have more guts them him cuz your doing something different and what you want to do he's probably just annoyed that he cant make everyone be just like him why would you want someone that rude to like u anyway? i always got picked on for speaking my own mind one time it actually came in handy when i told my highschool principal that are teacher started preaching her negative religous views on animal rights to us and she got in trouble the only time it really bothered me was when someone called out hippy cuz i waring a colorful tyedye outfit to a 311 show it was my 21 bday and i just felt like expressing my wonderful self ! i ended up feeling a little silly at the end of the day but didnt let it ruin my fun. it sucks being insulted especially if your sensitive just today i was insulted at a meeting by someone supposedly helping me get some finanical aid for school he basicaly made feel like i was lying itsa long story but anyway im going to talk to his supervisors about it and make sure it doesnt happen again the point it is that we should not let someone get way with being nasty to us next time just say something back! lots of love amy
I know it's just sad the lengths people will go to when they aren't in to you. I shared something on another forum and greated it wasn't suppose to go in the particular thread I put it in but this girl comes in and asks me why it was there. I had already explained why it was there and I told her why again and apparently she told the mods like they were suppose to trash it. Not only didn't the mod trash it but the mod moved it and left a link to follow it to the other room. (I thought that was really nice.) I don't know why people get their kicks out of tattling on people that mean absolutely no harm. I'm just glad there are nice people in the world and I hope that stuff works out for you.
No offense to you, but get used to it. There are always going to be plenty of guys who will find you incredibly attractive, but there are also always going to be guys who don't find you attractive at all. That is just as true for the "model-perfect" barbie doll as it is for the 400 lb. girl who fails to meet any of the "mainstream" beauty standards. There's nothing wrong with YOU just because some guys don't find your physique or your style or your hair color or your whatever attractive. Honestly, I'd rather have guys who aren't my type just not take an interest in me than to be that girl that most males find physically attractive but mentally vacuous (or worse, a back-stabbing, manipulative bitch!).
