All this talk about your first love....i keep thinkin, how can you acctualy have a first love, i mean yeah if u get married and stay with that same person, or if you never ifnd anyone better then the one you have, or had, but if you think about it, you find someone and stay with them for a long long time, maybe when your young or old, but then if you find someone else and love them, and chances are you stay with them longer, and you eather love them more or the same, then how can you acctualy have a first love, i mean how do you know what love is, at first, if it was your first, im starting to beleave you dont acctually have a first or second or even third love, there is like one person out there that your ment to love, and the wrest of 'em are just games, and they're only there to build up confidence..hmmmm i dont know if im being clear or not, im not good at writing my thoughts, but doesn't anyone aggree, im cerious to know..
my last girlfriend and i had been dating for over 4 months, but we both "loved" eachother even before we had started dating. i went out with a friend of hers before i met her, and before i knew it i was only going out with the first girl to get to know the 2nd girl more. we started going out on january 29th, and maybe i dont know what love is but i loved her so much. i woulda done anything for her, and the same for her. we had fought a little but we always forgave eachother cuz we loved eachother so much. we had to break up because shes moving about 200 miles away and she had personal reasons that id rather not get into. we broke up at the beginning of this month and it still hurts me becuz she meant the world to me. i dont know maybe some of you have had the feeling where you jsut cant live without someone, well i had that for her. but yea im getting over her little by little but i dont want to. but noth of us said that we will prolly get back together in the future, cuz i plan on moving to minneapolis after my junior year of hi school, which is this year. oh yea her name is katy, and is the only person ive ever really loved
yeah i dated a guy for almost four yeaes, we broke up this past october and we're back together now, and to be honest i dont think i was inlove with him, well i could have been its just strange becuz i met more guys and i had relationships with them, yeah short ones, but its like i felt the exact same way for them as i did for my love, idk its just weird, its almost like i dont know when love is occuring!!!
"I dont think love is something you can tie up and throw into a lake. That's called Houdini. Love is liking someone alot." -- Jack Handey. i dont think theres any specific line that separates 'liking' someone and 'loving' them. its just when you realise that they're someone who'se a really special person to you. my girlfriend recently told me that the moment she realised she loved me was a long time before we started dating, when i left town for a few weeks and she realised she didnt want to be apart from me anymore... when someone is really special to you, thats love. it can be your first partner or you may never get that attached to someone... i donno.
if youre asking then you obviously just havent loved anyone yet. As stupid and cliche' as it sounds its true: When you love someone, you'll just know.
yeah but if u truly loved someone no mater what happens between u two you should never leave on another, but aventually i left the one i loved....i mean wut kind of bull shit is that...
My first love was somebody from this site. His name was Gibson and we even met eachother. I guess we just grew into two different people and long distance relationships really put a damper on things because you can't really evolve together. But that doesn't matter, I'm in love again and this time its a lot more vicinal. You know, it would have been our anniversary yesterday. Weird.
but see how do u love the person ur with now...if, u were once inlove,,,,,ahhhh i dont get it, becuz love shouldn't fade, and if it doesn't fade then how can u find sum1 new to fill in that gap!!!!
Love doesn't go away, it just changes- becomes smaller and you put it in a little space in your heart and memory. The feelngs u had can be remembered whenever you want to, though you'll probably choose to forget. If we remained at the same level of love for that first person, and if it couldn't work out for whatever reasons, then we would never be able to move on with our lives and build any new or intimate relationships whatsoever. So you go on to fall in love again, and falling for someone can be so easy to do that it's quite unbelievable.
Well, I would say I was 'in love' now. It is a rather strange situation...but i have no doubt that I love them and he is in no way just filling a gap. I love someone else as well though. The love never has faded and I know it never will...but we are too different for it to work or maybe it just came to soon. I was never exactly in a relationship with her, but I loved her, she loved me, it worked fine. The only thing that has changed really is the way our minds look at the situation...not our hearts. Oh and the fact that I never really see her anymore
A very astute posting from an 18 year old! And too true. People mix up sexual infatuation or passion with love and then wonder why it doesn't last. They think they are in love, but they are not. Sexual infatuation or passion can only take you so far... True love is when you connect with someone mind, body and soul. Everything they do and say appeals to you. You connect sexually, emotionally and intellectually. True love doesn't go away. It burns bright and intense and overpowering to begin with. After 18 years, it is a steady fire that still warms your heart as soon as you see your loved one at the end of a days work. And you hug and kiss as soon as you get home. Or, maybe, get naked and have sex because you are together again.
