ok..I've been having sex for about a year now...and th orgasms are great....the problem is, i orgasm too fast. like last night, it took me under 5 minutes to orgasm. it also always hurts for the first couple seconds. i feel like im a constant virgin...its always satisfying...but not always for the male counterpart.....any other chicks like that? how to deal with this?
Be happy dear, it's better than not coming at all. LOADS better. Why is it not satisfying for the partner? I mean, if a guy comes too early of course it sucks, cause the fun is over - but we can just keep going and going......and have more than one orgasm. That's great! And about the pain, I dunno if it's the same, but I always have that problem when i haven't had sex in a while. If that's not it, you should get it checked out hun.
This is the first time I've ever heard of a girl who has a problem of climaxing too soon. So many guys have that problem that it's practically an epidemic -- and I've known about the latter for more years than I care to count. So premature orgasms for women is news to me. -- Skeeter
hah yeah, it feels like im losing my virginity over and over again, even if its only been like a week or so, i tighten back up and after like 5 or 6 orgasms, i usually cant handle it anymore and the guy doesnt cum..
Try some different positions. Certain positions will do nothing for me but feel great to my boyfriend. So find some of those.
Feel lucky... I can't orgasm at all during sex. Even oral sex doesn't get me off. Maybe take breaks in between and give your partner a blow job or something to get him more excited so he can finish as well.
