I was very shy at your age and lacking in confidence because I felt I was "undersized". However I managed to finally break out and have girlfriends. I love flirting with girls now (despite being happily married) and I found a really nice smile seemed to work for me. I also found I was attracted to girls who were happy and fun to talk with. Its not easy to let go of something in the past but if he's moved on then so will you.
I strong suggest that you turn your life towards jesus. I heard that's the thing to do.. dont knowI havent tried! greg
Oh Honey, you are way too young and pretty to pine away for a jerk.. Maybe you're not ready to move on yet..Sometimes it's better to not have a man and just enjoy your friends..
trust me, guys want to ask out girls like you but are too afraid of being rejected. it hurts their ego. if you start a conversation with a guy even if you just ask the time he'll think you might be interested and is far more likely to ask you out. the more open and friendly you are to him the more likely he is to ask you out. a big smile is a good thing to do when talking to a boy. it makes you seem cute and bubbly! i'm shy like you so i know what its like, but don't live your whole life waiting to be asked out, put some effort in! do it yourself!
Just Try To Talk To More People. Im The Same Way, Real Shy And Shit Around People I Dont Know. I Started Gettin Pissed Cause I Wasnt Gettin Any Girls So I Just Got Some Balls And Started Talkin To Em More! You Can Do It With Guys If I Can Do It With Girls
I used to be really really really shy, but then i just stoped caring, about most everything, and that helped aalot cause i wanst afraid of a no, or kissing wrong, and any of that kinda stuff. Try not to care, i know its not really something that you can say to yourself, like " Alright today i dont care". Also try not to think about stuff so much, it helps too.
I'm not shy. But I am old school. I teach my daughter that it's not ladylike to ask a guy out , but the talking and smiling advice is good. Little things like eye contact and good posture is good with that big smile. It shows that you are a confident person. Even if you aren't really, it'll give you some confidence if go ahead and throw your shoulders back, smile real big, and look a nice fella in the eye and say "hello".
See thats what i mean about not thinking, if you think of all the things that can go wrong your gonna freak yourself out. And so what if hes says ew, or get away from me, if a guy says that he is obviously retarded because you are very pretty. And also no guy would say that, and if they do fuck em, theres plenty more men out there.
