I have a bf...but its a really bad situation that might soon be over. I rushed into things with him...we had sex b4 we got together (which is a first for me). I had got outta a long relationship prior to him. Anyways,There is this guy at work who is like madly in love with me....I like him alot too...but have never really been sexually attracted to him. At first I thought that was a bad thing...but now considering my past, it might be a good thing. I heard he is a virgin...I dont think he has really ever had a gf...yet hes handsome and awesome! Maybe hes picky and hasnt found the right girl. His innocence is attractive....in the sense that if we got together it would be based on love and the relationship and not on sex...even though sex is somewhat important, but for him I think I could wait. I have the want to kiss him....but thats about as far as my imagination goes...I am attracted to him, yet not in the way I have been to the previous guys I went out with. I am interested in him and getting to know him...and maybe that is why...also I dont want to have sex too soon and then realize the guy is wrong for me, and get myself into another situation like I am in now....*hmphhh*
Sex is not the end all and be all of a strong relationship. There should be a lot more involved, other feelings besides sexual ones. Of course being physical is certainly an aspect and should be considered. However at the same time I believe you can become more physically attracted to a person as time goes on if your other feelings for them increase. It's all tied together somehow...