Every time i've had sex (not alot) it hurts so bad that i have to stop after like 2 mins. the doctor said that i have sensitive skin, pap smears kill, even when the dr. took a swab i was white knuckling it!!!!! and even fooling around is painful, there is some pleasure but the best way to describe it is like after a guy has a really good orgasm and is super sensitive. this wouldn't be such a problem if i didn't live with my boyfriend. we have seperate rooms but it is still really difficult for him, i have no sexdrive what soever because of this stupid problem, i feel like i'm not a woman and i get soo depressed and every time he wants 'help' we get into a big fight because he thinks he understands how i feel, but he really doesn't, it's just sooo embarrasing. i just want to enjoy sex for once.
The only thought that I have is that, in her book about masturbation, Joanny Blank recomended putting a towel between your body and the vibrator if the intense sensation was painful.
Make sure you're "lubed up" when you're about to have sex. Too many guys try to rush the process, without making sure their partner is sufficiently aroused. Dry sex HURTS. And if he won't do it...do it yourself!
Lube lube and more lube, buy a didlo and masterbate more often to get your parts in working order. Oh and dont forget oral sex for him while you work through things. dont just throw this post to the side and forget about it, actually try it.
k, i've tried lube, i've been to the doctors, everything hurts, sometimes it hurts to pee. slow stretching is even worse. i can't even wear tampons with lube
listen...i had the same fucking problem when i first started to have sex... it wasn't just my vagina, but it was my thy's my legs, everything hurt everytime, and him touching me wasn't even pleasureing ne more at one point,,, check and see if u have almost cut like things on ur vagina, guarentee its just u stretching out and shit and i guarentee u its becuz he is eather big or just not good at the motions
it's so nice to know that i'm not the only one. how long did it last for you? we tried constantly for about 6 months, it just got worse so now i tell him to fuck off, i think it's been like 4 months since i've had the guts to try anything. i know that the skin is super sensitive, even when the dr. used a q-tip for a swab it hurt like hell, but i think because of his size it makes it stretch alot too. so what did you do about it?
