i hate sex!

well thats my confession!
i love intimacy but when it gets to the sex it just sucks
never had good sex

 

how sad-- i love sex!

 

Then you need to find a man who can show you that sex can be amazing! To tap into your sexuality a bit more,why not try masturbating a bit more, be experimental with yourself, find out what you like!

 

try having sex with a female n.n worked for me

 

uhm.. im not into females AT ALL. and i masturbate nearly everyday. Ive had boyfriends and had lots of sex lol, just don't really like it.

and at 14 you've had sex with a girl? some things on this forum really shock me. at 14 the most i had done was hold hands with a boy.

 

you know, you might need to balance your feminine side a bit--one does this by having sex with other girls, or at least being intimate with them. Then you can go back to having sex with boys and maybe it'll be better. You may learn some things about yourself along the way. For now, try fantasizing about them.

 

hate is such a strong word... i dont hate sex, but mearly await the time that i enjoy it

 

Sorry guys but I've never heard of people experimenting with girls, to enjoy sex with guys. that just sounds rediculous and childish to me.
The idea of sex with a girl makes me sick and definatly disbelieve it would help!
Its not like guys dont do it for me or turn me on its just the sex part, oral sex is fantastic. I just never been with someone who know's what he's doing and I am not experienced enough myself!

(im beginning to think i just have high standards on what it SHOULD be..)

 

people are too beautiful to not have sex with. i love sex.

 

Babyfirefly,Littlemistypop..

Sex needs following ingredients..
rigth time..right mood..right partner..
and before you start it...
come closer together on mental level..
Sex has everything to do with a good orgasm..
but if it's based on mental love..
it's a 1000 times felt more intense..
a good foreplay and afterplay is also important..
Emiel

 

I could have lived with it or without it a while back. But, when you have a powerful, intimate connection with someone - it's incredibly intense and spiritual (not to mention satisfying!)
For now, don't say you "hate" sex, rather you just dislike the inexperience former partners have had, ergo the overall experience wasn't that good.
I have not had sex with many people, (3) but only one was what I would deem "good." Do I hate sex? Nah. I just need the right person to make it good as opposed to the moves and tricks, LoL. But maybe, I'm just young and stupid.

 

I have been in love.. It was the most intense thing I have ever experienced. Intimatly intense and emotional too. Long intense relasionship.

What im tryin to get across is that its not about that. I've had beautiful and amazing sexual experiences but ..er when it comes down to orgasming it just doesnt happen from sex.

 

so what you are really saying is not so much that you don't like sex, but that you do not orgasm from penetration. this is VERY common. in fact i think it's more common than not. and from all i have heard many women never come AT ALL so be thankful you don't have that problem! lol

 

wow really, doesn't that kinda take away from the whole 'togetherness' thing, if one person cums and the other doesn't? haha.. ah well I spose your right.. just means actual sex is overated then!!

 

Mop,I hope you can find someone to share your passion with.Dont put so much emphasis on that and look for some one that you enjoy talking to.

 

haha, thank you!
I just wanted to post a confession I really don't think or care too much about it at all hehe..

 

try doggy style i hear that works wonders for those who never do it

 

A girl having sex with another girl is a wonderful experience. Why don't Leki, Whiteginger, you and me have a nice foursome.

 

if you're bisexual or lesbian..

and by sex with a girl do you mean oral sex?