... I really like him. I think he likes me as well, we've been kinda seeing each other for the past 2 months, we act like bf/gf but he told me he doesn't want a gf and I respect that. I'm just thinkin, if he doesn't want a gf, then why does he act the way he does with me? I think he has issues with stuff if he doesn't wanna go out with me, but I'm just really confused. I want to ask him what hes thinkin, coz I kinda feel I have the right to, but at the same time I don't want to coz then he'll think I'm pressuring him or somethin. My mates all think hes falling for me and I know for a fact I'm smitten. I think we could be really good together, I went a bit mental a while back, I had no self respect basically and slept with a lot of ppl I shouldn't have, but since I've been with him.... I feel special for the first time in ages. I dunno if I should say this, but I feel here must be something between us coz no one has ever made me feel like this. When I kiss him its as if nothin else matters and it feels great to know the person doesn't just want to sleep with me. So, umm... any advice?
sounds like you may have a good thing going. just see where it ends up. it's shitty advice, I know, because you're probably really confused about where it's going but just enjoy your time together and whatever's meant to happen will.
Sounds like infatuation--it'll pass. Fairy tales are fictional. It just sounds like you are to "into" this person and that kind of love is obsessive. Go out and explore. Have fun and don't waste your energy submitting to an emotional psychosis.
Maybe he does like you but isnt ready for the kind of commitment a relationship involves.... Having it for someone and wanting to be in a relationship are two different things He might also be making sure he doesnt give you high expectations about a realtionship between you because he cares about you enough to not want to hurt you. sheesh you guys are all so negative!
I've not spoke to him in like a week, I decided not to call him or anyhin and see if he called me. Which he hasn't. So I'm givin up. He'll stay a really good friend but I think thats about it. I'm a wee bit upset about it but hey, shit happens. If its meant to be it will so we'll see.
i think u're right..u should give him time..maybe he'll change his mind eventually.. if your friends all think he's falling for u, i'm sure they're not all blind .. anyway..i hope u get to be his gf soon
ooops..i only read the first post..now i've seen the last one..i feel stupid now.. ok..anyway...i hope he calls..
