During sex I am very agressive. I dont mean to be.. I dont even notice.. Alot of the time the guy wont either till its over, and he notice's bloody scratch marks on his arms, chest, and back. I dont even have long nails.. I bite them. lol can anyone relate??
Sure,I think that's actually common. As long as the guy doesn't care,then he should wear them with pride...battle scars
I would stop if a girl started scratching me or biting me in sex, unless I was going to kill myself. It seems like you don't really care for your lovers if you do that to them, makes me want to kill you sort-of.
Its like your just using him, mutalating his body, and if he is allowing it, it is a dent in his self esteem and you don't care; or you don't give a damn.
People like that are mentally confused about sex and relationships... Reasearch about it. I used to have a girlfriend who wouldnt stop biting my hands and leaving teeth marks and bruises, so i bit her back right on the cheek! She never done it again
Just because someone has a particular fetish doesn't mean that they are "confused". Perhaps that's what gets them off. When it gets dangerous is when the other party does not give his/her consent.
what stange responses to this thread. its normal as far as im concerned and as far as any of my friends are concerned. WE are not "normal" but we certainly dont need a shrink or anything. i mean come on shit happens. animals bite and claw eachother while they do it why cant we. peace, bob
i'm also confused about some of the responses... i thought it was normal to grab and scratch in the heat of the moment... sometimes i have to watch what i'm doing so i don't hurt the guy... grab with my fingers and not my nails.. or grab the sheets instead...
drawing blood during sex isn't exactly my bag, but eh, whatever, diverse styles make the world go 'round... can this increase your risk for certain stds, though? that's the only thing i would worry about, diseases spread through blood like hiv... because the wounds are due to biting, so your chance of getting fresh blood in your mouth is pretty high. sex might seem safer if you're using condoms, but when blood comes into the mix, making sure future partners have been tested might be a good idea.
my girl likes to bite softly. she's a nibbler, really. but so am i and it's sweet. but drawing blood is going too far. if it hurts then fuck that shit. peace.
Hmm I thought it was normal as well...seems to be among the people I know. When a female has an intense orgasm,she will often claw her nails into her partners back. Sometimes it breaks skin,sometimes not. I've never known of any guy being offended or put off by that...but to each their own,of course. That's just one example though...some people could take it farther(men and women both) and that isn't cool,if their partner doesn't want that.
Perhaps I was misunderstood. What I meant to say was: Real humans who have had sex with other real humans enjoy that. In fact, if you tear my back open with yor fingernails, I can guarantee longer, deeper, harder sex.
