Should I be concerned that my gf didn't like the taste of my cum and spit it out last time she blew me? (we have a long distance relationship right now so havent done it again, but i'll be seeing her in a few days. That was the only time she tasted my cum btw. next time she blew me i just came somewhere else). Anyway, why I'm concerned is that she didn't mind the taste of this guy she had a purely sexual relationship with before me. Also I should mention that was the day I landed there and I was dehydrated. I've never had complaints about the taste before, but she also just isn't into cum that much. It bothers me also because this previous guy was just a booty call and she supposedly loves me. I guess I feel like she prefers his cum and then it makes me think she prefers him over me. Or that when she's blowing me she wishes it was him because of the taste. It makes me feel inadequate. I used to be very confident with myself as a lover. Now it's pretty much gone. My sex drive is down. I haven't been getting spontaneous erections like I used to. I am depressed/stressed out about a lot of other shit lately too though. Family stuff and other stuff with her. Also, something happened in March which makes me not trust her 100%. I'm sure that somehow works into my other feelings towards her. The past few months I've basically turned into a different person. I've been on a health kick and have been eating a lot healthier and working out a lot, etc. I'm hoping the taste is better next time because I feel like I shouldn't have to go out of my way to make it taste tolerable. Part of me feels like part of the taste is psychological and that she was more attracted to him, but she said another guy she was very attracted too tasted really bad. Whenever we've talked about it she gets really defensive, frustrated, and annoyed. She thinks I want her to be something she isn't because other girls I was with loved swallowing/blowing, etc. My real problem is with myself though.... This makes me doubt our relationship, love, etc. I'm supposed to be moving in with her in a few months. I'm unsure of what to do. This isn't something to break up over right? She seems to think that if she makes me so unhappy (even though it isn't her fault and she does make me very happy) then why do i wanna be with her? How do I speak to her about this without her getting defensive? How do we work through it?
If she doesn't like the taste of your cum, it means that she hates you and is daydreaming about other guys while blowing you. You know, I'll bet that she travels all that distance just so she can think of other guys while giving you head. You should call her up this minute, cancel the date, break up with her and never see or speak to her again. Whew, lucky we caught that before something even worse happened.
To be honest, i think you deserve the answer MikeE gave.. lol If she didn't like the taste of your Spaghetti Bolognese but liked the stuff her ex cooked would you consider it a relationship breaking problem? Its quite right that your real problem is with yourself. But you're focusing on the wrong thing. I'll say it once, and only once.. IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE THE TASTE OF YOUR JIZZ, ITS BECAUSE IT TASTES BAD! It doesn't mean she prefers the men man was with before (although, by the sounds of it you may well wish to go back to one of those girls who loved swallowing - have you thought how that makes her feel?), its means that his jizz didn't taste bad.. same as his spaghetti. And it might not even be your jizz that is the problem. I hate the taste of strawberries, losts of people like them, i love raspberries, but some people hate them. Same as she doesn't like your jizz, whilst some other jizz might be ok to her. Bottom line, wtf are you doing worrying about something like this? Its a nothing issue i'm afraid - and it sounds like you have more important things to be worrying about. Good luck with it all anyway!
o get a life... what kinda answer is that. this guy asked for advise not criticism.... . Kronos, I read over your delema several times. Here is what I have to say about it. I really think you and your girlfriend need to be more open with one another. you cant have a serious relationship with someone if you cant communicate with them. You also need to feed secure around her, and obviously you dont right now. Have you ever tasted your own cum? When she told you that she didnt mind the taste of her last Boyfriend dont take offence.. How old are you? how old is she? What is your diet like? diet can change the taste of your cum. I have givin my share of head and I know all guys taste a little diffent . Some better then others, it isnt anything to be ashamed of. Everyone is different, Every girl has a different smell and taste too. The next time you talk to her about it, and she gets annoyed etc, dont let her. Tell her how you feel, and how this is really bothering you. If you guys are going to be moving in with each other, you have to be able to work through these things.. Has she only givin you head this once? if not Has she ever complained about the taste before? Do you eat alot of red meats? Steamed veggies? What about caffine? Tell her that she makes you rally happy, it just hurts to think that you taste funny compared to other guys.. This sounds like a case of not knowing how to talk to her.. or she may not know how to respond to your feelings. Have you ever tried using flavored condoms? They might be helpful in this situation. O, and dont bring up your last girlfriends and how they thought you tasted good, and how they never complained. she might find that offensive too. Because one thing may taste good to one person and bad to another.. . What happened in march that made you not trust her 100%? It sounds like you guys need some couples couselling.. maybe sex theropy... good luck I hope I helped...
I've heard that drinking a lot of pineapple juice - a few glasses - about 45mins before a blow job can make the taste sweeter, and more palatable. Your diet is a very big factor in the taste of Semenal fluid. A healthy diet is a good way to go, but make sure it is a balanced one. Just increasing your vegetable intake doesn't make a healthy diet. Drink plenty of water too, avoid the tea and coffee and artificially sweetened drinks, and follow an advised diet from a proper nutritionalist. Your GP should be able to put you in touch with someone. As for the other issues, I really do think you should address the trust issue before you go any further with this person. Trust is a huge issue in relationships, and if you can't get that to work, then is it really worth continuing ? Long distance relationships are hard enough without the added worry of how much you trust each other. Either way, Good luck with it all.
I must add! Your diet has all the impact possible on the taste of your cum. CITRUS CITRUS CITRUS an orange a day keeps the babes at play! (ay I just made that up ) drink lemonade, eat an orange, grapefruit, whatever. not 45min before--more like 12h before! good luck!
It is a good idea to eat fruit regularly anyway, but the taste of semen can be affected by what you've consumed in approximately 45 minutes, as the bloodstream makes such a good 'sugar and refines' carrier...and the testes and prostrate gland are very well blood-supplied organs.
I disagree. I've never tried pineapple, but it isn't citrus. Try both, maybe, and ask her if she notices a difference.
