i'm a shy girl, and i tend to push guys away when what i really want to do is fuck the shit out of them right on the spot lol, like my b/f now, i really want to have sex with him but i dont know how to set it up and go about it without looking too obvious, u kno that im takin advice form people online, and that im putting moves on him lol, i wanna make it seem like im going with the flow... who can help me with this??? here's when its gunna happen tommorow nigth im sneakin out of my frends house and going to his house with a frend of mine (girl) and im planing on doing it then in his room, but i rele dont know how to go about it, and i want a plan that me and my frend can go by!!!
naw him and i have been together long enuff its definitly time oh and now i get why everyone thinks im soo young im not 15!!!!! lol im 17 my lil sister anna is 15 we both use the same user name i am kate
Well, just be careful, when you have sex with someone, it can make the relationship akward if you're not completely ready for it.
Yes... you really have a full and total understanding of love. LOL... whatever man... Like Nike says, Just Do It. Fucking start making out with him and grab his shit... Very very straight forward. You a virgin? Hope you relize the pain thats a comin
Ummm...no she's not! I was 15 when I started, and there are girls and guys who have started even younger. You're ready when you're ready...not when society says that you are.
thats all u think about is sex darklunacy im goin to go to dallas and put a cap in ur grill peace chickens
there is apsolutly nothing wrong with sex you guys, i dont see what the big deal is... why is society controling all of ur minds...i know im ready, and no im not a virgin, the guy i lost my virginity to died a year ago and it was the saddest thing i have ever been thru, i haven't been with ne oine since, and the person im with now...he's been there for me since it happend, and we started to acctually date like 5 months ago and i know im definitly ready to start something special with him im not a fucking reatdr u guys who doubt me i know wut im getting myself into and i know about protection, and im on birth control i take care of myself he just doesn't want me to do something i dont wanna do, and since dan's death who would blame him...i just dont kno how to show him im ready
and i dont kno how to start it...u know get the flame goin...becuz he wont make a move on me he's scared of my reaction....i can just tell, but he tells me he loves me, we sleep next to eachother almost every night, and its definitly a serious relationship w/o the seriousness of acctuale love making
if you sleep next to him nearly every night...then why are you having to sneek there tonight? Why pretend to be going to a girlfriends if this is a serious relationship? Sorry, just curious
Yeah its a bit strange...you seem to be in the know as to what its all about. Does he not know you enough to spot that you have something you wish to erm..well you know Its not realy...calm down Forgive my rudeness...but just get on with it. If your waiting for a the moons of venus to align or this bloke to satisfy your every whim , with out you having to speak about it , you know like he 'totaly gets you' . You maybe waiting a long time. This is coming from a desperate single guy .. well not desperate just single.
I wouldn't really say that it is controlling my mind...but sex is a big deal. Sometimes I try and work out why it does seem like such a big deal to me and I don't really know. I know though that I don't ever want to have a long list of people I've had sex with, some who I have forgotten or whos names I no longer know. Sex is ome of the ultimate ways of sharing/giving yourself with another. You make it sound like the two of you are close. If this is the case then surely you can just talk about it?
All my relationships were perfect until we had sex... then the fighting started. Infact the first fight i've had with every girlfriend is the day after we have had sex for the firs ttime. Why is that?
Because a little bit of magic has gone...whatever the bloody hell that means. Some ex told me that.. Might be just me.......grunt.
LOL, society obviously says to start fucking the shit out of everyone you meet the moment you relaize what your goods are made for! I'm glad you're so responsible maryjaneguitargirl!!! I'm glad to know that there are some respectable young people out there. Just remember that true love waits! Peace and hugs!!!
darklunacy, that's not necessarily true. there was no pain at all for me so don't scare the poor girl. she doesn't need that. now, psychostalker, if you have to have help to have sex, YOU ARE NOT READY. age really doesn't matter, but if you don't know how to go about it, you really don't need to do it. and DON'T PLAN OUT how you are going to do it. sex should just come naturally. it doesn't need a plan or a way to go about it. just do it but if you can't do it without help from someone else, please refrain from doing it at all.
I agree with the last poster-even if you've had sex before, if you can't bring the topic up with your boyfriend, you're not ready.
While laying on the bed talking to him.. wiggle your ass and then tell him you got a itch on your back that you really need scratched. Now while he's scratching your back wiggle some more and let him know how good that feels. dont let him stop. make him scratch you everywhere. When he's worn out ( cause he's not gotten a clue yet ) roll over and tell him you got some more spots to scratch. Now by this time if you two are not about ready to get it on, your way to young.
