....that i hate deadbeat bidders on ebay...why why why must people do that shit? i just wanna smack and smack some people... ok im done...i just got stiffed yet again...makes for a bitter me
i freaked out back in the day, and fucked up an order. i think people do it because the anticipation is often the fun part of shopping and bidding. like, oh, i COULD have this object if i wanted it, let's see if i win...but when the reality hits that the person must actually produce money for the item, the romanticism vanishes. for me, well, when it came down to it, i just didn't have the money i'd conjured i'd had. i truly didn't realize the repercussions of being a deadbeat, that it costed the seller money, and that they might have actually found a buyer if not for me. i've repented, hopefully my karma's faring better nowadays. sorry sisters, for your misfortune. sure is a bitch.
the only reason it annoys me is cuz they ignore you... if someone just said...oops my bad..and made up some excuse i would at least have closure...lol... Im not saying I have never dont it..I once won my man basketball tickets n then had no money in the end....least i told the dude tho.... RAWR...
i feel ya on that one mommy, i have had quite a few deadbeats the last month or so and it sucks cuz i am trying to run a business and make a profit so my husband wont have to do all the bill paying and stuff.................. i am a very understanding person when it comes to things so if they wold just email me i wold be glad to not leave feedback at all, but when they dont email me i feel bad leaving negative feedback cuz i am usually such a nice person!
For the one thing I tried selling on ebay, which I repeatedly specified I ONLY ship to the U.S., someone in Argentina bid and won it.
the only time i ever screwed anyone over on ebay is because they tried telling me it would cost $30 to ship a damn t-shirt to my house. (which i know it should have only cost like $6.00 at the most) I would have explained myself, but my internet got cut off and i had no access to a comp. Oh well, the time has come and gone. I never feel bad leaving negative feedback cuz man, people really really piss me off whent hey don't even respond to your emails. I had one girl booted off ebay after she failed to pay, or respond to any of my or ebays warnings and emails. :X
Yeah, those deadbeat bidders really suck...I especially hate it when I get one that has great feedback, like.. "fast pay' 'great ebayer' and shit like that but have I heard from this person after 2 invoices and a formal reminder from eBay? Nooo. That seriously pisses me off! I always file a complaint when I get burned, since it's the only way to get any money back...even if it is only part of it...but it actually takes at least 3 formal complaints about a person to get them kicked off.
