My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We use to have sex almost everyday, sometimes more than once a day. Now..I doubt his love, affection, and sexual attraction. I have to ask for sex. And sometimes when I ask, he grumbles. Not only do I beg him for sex now..but I let him roam to his friends' whenever he pleases and he bitches at me for wanting to spend time with him. I just think we lost our flame. :/ So tell me...please... What do you guys want from girls? Please. List what would make the perfect girlfriend (traits, looks, characterisitcs, actions, viewpoints, ideas, etc.) Please, help me.
From my experience, every guy wants something different. However, the same type of situation your in happened to me. Have you tried explaining this to him? If not do it. You could take a break, maybe he just needs space. Or if you dont want to do that, try with-holding sex from him. It worked for me. Ithink if you have sex everyday it makes him think he can get it when he wants and i hate to say it but he ends up taking advantage. Thats what happened to me. Hope I have offered some help.
everyday with the same person can get boring. it's a sign of clinginess and he wants his space. my bet is your relationship is gonna end
Your (put age here)(thanks flylily) and giving away the milk for free every single day and sometimes twice, what else did you expect? Personally, I think he found another milk maid or two and your old news unless the newbies aren't putting out. What I suggest at your age is start acting like it. Close the store and start demanding a bit more respect from your partners. You won't find a decent man by giving up the goods, this is old info that most any woman should know by now. If you then hook up with a guy who whines even once about you not giving it up, then he's a child and you need to move on. Oh, yeah... what we want in a woman? Well, that's a bad question because it shouldn't be about what we want. It's too wide a range asking thousands of people on a message board and you could never cover all the basis. It should be about who you are and what you want. Find somebody compatible with the real you and not some fabricated you who is just trying to please the guys. Good Luck.
29 is the number of her posts , not her age Anyway, what I agree with, is that you shouldn't be asking yourself to do exactly what he wants form a girl, but what you personally like to do for him. If it is not appreciated, I think he's really the wrong person. But, in my opinion, it could also be that recently boredom has overcome his feelings.
You should try out sourcing. Just go out, find a new hobbie and make new friends and re-create your life. That way he will eventually relise that your out there having fun, and that you are a beautiful person that he wants back. Or if he is just an asshole and wants to move on, then you wont care because you have this new wonderful life, which can go on with or without him. Make him jelous!
Out of all of these posts, this one seems most on target to me. Forget what everyone said about withholding sex. If you want to use him for your own pleasures, then you should if he's willing. If you don't, then don't. But, you're probably not going to turn his affections your way again by being so, shall I say...all about him. If you want to know what men want, I think sometimes we want what we haven't yet conquered. Like both sexes, we want excitement. My advice to you is to remind him why he fell so in love with you in the first place. When you again start turning the heads of other men, it's likely he'll quickly regain his interest in you.
ahhhh nevermind it all. there's no "list that fits all" kind. we're all individuals - guys and girls. you know your limits and know when to pull the plug enjoy whatever you doin and whoever you doin it with !
