Could it be lust or love?

I've only been with this guy for two months now and I think I may be falling in love with him. I've never felt this way before with anybody and I'm fairly certain it's not lust but I also never believed you could fall in love with someone quite that fast. Is there any way to discern between lust and love and does anyone here believe love can sometimes come quickly?

 

i think you can fall in love that quickly... actually i know so. I fell hard and fast for my boyfriend. We were dating for maybe 6 weeks (new each other for 4 months or so) and i just knew. Since then the bond has grown stronger... were already planning on moving in together, hell jokingly saying we should elope turned into a convo of "i really am going to marry you some day" talk... after only 4 or 5 months.

It happens all the time. There are no rules as far as love goes. Our hearts cant be controled...
When you meet that person does time matter?

 

i've fallen in love with someone before i even asked her out. ended up dating for years....

 

i think you have to examine your own thoughts and desires.

if you get enjoyment frfom kissing and say you think "wow! hes a great kisser!" or if you think "wow! i love this guy" and its very definate, this could be a SLIGHT guideline on your emotions.

also i gues the part of sex, if its the fact that your shareing a bed/shower/couch/floor/kitchen table/chair/washing machine/pool/airplane toilet/ entrance door/garden chair/car/etc with this man and enoying each others act of love, or if your just into his cock or his technique or his preferances this could be another guideline.

however, knowing the confusuion your in, its probably both, and no matter how much your into his cock or love the way he kisses, if you love sharing a bed or WHEN he kisses you, its most likely love with a lustfull touch

 

I think two months is plenty of time to feel real love, especially if you are open to it.

 

Thanks you guys You've been so helpfull,I've never been in love before and this is all so new to me. But after reading all your advice I think I've concluded I'm in LOVE!

 

Congratulations. You're in for the ride of your life.

 

I also agree with all these people. I didint think it was possible to fall in love with someone so quickly but time and time again I prove myself wrong..Hopefully everything works out for you : )...

 

Lol, that's so awesome... Congratulations! I agree, it's absolutely possible to become so taken with someone that you could be in love with them really fast... I mean, love definately "changes shape" over time, and the love you guys have a year or more from now will likely be different, but it doesn't make what you feel now any less than love... you know what I mean? Of course you do, lol, you're in love... Maybe because of my pagan spirituality, I'm totally into the idea that we already "know" each other on some level and for people we are truly meant to meet, it's just like a reunion or something and you've known each other since time began...

LOL, oh man, I'm getting really corny... Just talking about love gets me crazy like that, lol!