Okay, so I'm 18. I've never had a girlfriend (or at least a true person to love, really). I've sort of had these little things with a couple girls, nothing spectacular, and they never resulted in much. I've come to the conclusion that it really is quite sad that I've never been in a relationship, and I'm 18. It's not that I lack in the looks (I'm not a fucking model, but it'll do) and people have said I have a great personality. It's just that with me being extremely shy, and my procrastination, I've never really attempted to go out there and meet people, even in high school (I'm in my last year of school). I'm hoping I start to overcome this soon, cause lately I've been really lonely...like, really lonely..lol. It's sad. Sigh. Anyways, I thought I'd let that out. I usually don't share shit like this unless I'm drunk, and, well...I'm pretty drunk. Time for more beer. :H Love, Kris
haha, being shy sucks, i used to be shy, but not anymore, overcome your shyness with confidence and go find a chick(i should take my own advice).
Yeah I hear that. Damn shyness. There was this one time, though. I was at an all night party once, and this girl came up to me and said I was really cute. Unfortunately, I was really high on drugs, and by the time I realized/comprehended what she said, she was walking down the hall. Fuck.
Yeah, you and me both Kris. I'm 21 and no g/f. I'm kinda sad and lonely a lot...but I get by. I'll have plenty of time to meet women in college which is only 3 months away.
Yep,really,be confident. I know it's not easy but try to put your shyness aside,work over it,and once you talk to girls a few times,it will start getting easier...and then you will have built up natural confidence. Don't worry if you get rejected,it sucks,but it happens in life. Also,making friends with girls is another good idea. Go out there and have fun. Good luck!
I've got quite a few girl friends. But most of them aren't interested in a relationship, have a boyfriend already, or are just really good friends, and want to stay like that. There was this one girl at work, she's about 21 or so. We used to always fool around a bit, she was slightly flirtatious...and everytime I saw her, I'd always give her a kiss on the cheek. Then it stopped, haha. I didn't really think it would go anywhere, though. I was still interested in her...but I just let it go. The last one I was sort of seeing, she made it quite apparent that she liked me (basically by flat out saying she liked me, lol). I didn't do much with that, though. We hung out a bit, talked. But I never asked her out on a real date. Then I think she gave up as well, and started seeing a guy that she had liked earlier.
I went out with my 2 friends Saturday night(they dragged me to a bar out of town) and these 3 girls came up to me and asked me to dance...I kept saying "I can't, I'm sorry." They were hounding me for 2 hours...every song. I just couldn't do it. Hooray for being a shy. Turns out they're both going to the same college I am in September...guess I fucked that one up, they all probably think I'm a loser now.
Haha, that sucks dude. Shit like that happens to me most of the time. I just don't have the courage. Sometimes if I'm at the bar I'm usually too drunk, and I know I'd just make a fool of myself anyways.
Ok, I'm 20 and..... *I've never had a girlfriend *I currently have no friends outside of work and I don't see that changing *I've never been on a date and I see no sign of one anytime soon *I've never had a kiss *I've only been out with friends once *I've never been hugged by anyone I wasn't related to *I never held a conversation with a girl until I was like 19 *I tried a personal ad and no one ever answered *I've sent many responses to personal ads and no one ever responded back *I'm down to only 1 person to talk to on instant messenger *My myspace profile has had 257 views and not one single message sent to me *I've sent countless friend requests and messages and only 2 ever responded *When I'm lonely or had a bad day, there's no one that really cares *I'm the outcast of every group of people and I don't get why *Theres people I work with that won't talk to me unless they have to *99% of the time I'm left behind or left out when there's fun to be had *There are only 3 people who care, and they're all family *I've never gotten a valentine card or had a valentine So see, it could be worse. I'm not really shy and I don't act weird, it's just no one likes me for some reason. You don't even need a reason or have to ever have talked to me to dislike me, it's just what everyone's doing these days. If I stop and look at my life from an outside perspective, I think it's amazing I haven't killed myself yet. So there ya go, I'm more pathetic than you.
