ok, I met this girl, we've been going out for like alittle under 1 month, I see her every day in school, she makes me feel so happy inside as some of you may of read my other posts and know how much my life sucks, but now I feel like I'm so happy all the time it's great, I wish she could always be with me, but I need help... 1. I think she just thinks I want her for well you know...I joke around some times like I don't know just saying things about you know doing stuff, but she knows I'm kidding around, I just do it because I don't know what to say some times so I just joke around I want to and all but how can I let her know that I love her for just who she is and not just for her body? I want her to know we can just hang out and not do anything if she doesn't want to, because it seems every time we hang out we end up just making out, but I want her to know that she doesn't have to if she doesn't want to I don't want her to feel she has to just to make me happy, I'll be happy just being with her....because sometimes she acts like that's all I think about, I tell her what I told you about wanting for who she is and that she never has to think she has to do any thing just because she thinks I want her to and I would never make her do anything, but I don't know if she believes me how can I show her I really mean that, because when I tell her that she's just like it's ok, you have your needs I know, how you guys are or something, but that's really not all I think about how can I show her that 2. I never know what to talk about I mean when we are together I find things to talk about, but I still don't talk a lot, but at least we are some where that we can find stuff to talk about, like the things aroud us ad stuff, but we have been IMing a lot and I usually don't know what to talk about, because we are not any where that we can see things to talk about...what should I talk about? I don't want her to think I don't like her when I don't talk much, do you think she will think that? 3. and I don't know what I'm going to do in the summer, she lives like a half hour a way, and I'm not going to see her as much, I wait all day just to see her, it makes my whole day, I don't want to go back to being depressed andstuff, I don't want her to loose interest in me, I'm still going to try to go down like 1 or 2 times a week, but if we just IM most of the time I wont know what to say, and I'm afraid she will loose interest in me...do you think she will? 4. how can I let her know how much she means to me I tell her all the time, but I don't want her to just think I'm saying it like just I love you, because I'm going out with her, I want her to know I really do love her, and she's the reason haven't been at all depressed or thinking about dieing now a days...and I have stopped drinking and doing drugs now, I haven't done any since we met, I guess because I just did it to try to make me happy but now that I have her I am happy with out those things...
ASK HER OUT ON A DATE DAMMIT. just ask. The worst thing she can do is say no. but there's a 50% chance that she'd say yes.
I already did, didn't U see where I put we've been going out for like alittle under 1 month, and I have sentences and stuff, I just use commas and the three dots, and what is this a English class any way
I'll dissect this for you. Problem 1: Isn't a problem, your girl likes making out, don't question a good thing. Problem 2: So your not very talkative, if she ever tells you you don't talk enough, just tell her you enjoy her company. It's likely that she enjoys someone she can just hang out with rather then having to cram a bunch inane vowel clusters into a conversation to have something to say. Problem 3: I don't know... You gotta car? You should take her out to do fun things, it doesn't even have to cost money, ride bikes, go swimming, whatever. Problem 4: My advice is to not shower her with bold declerations of affection and just go and enjoy spending time with her. You're overcomplicating everything, just go and enjoy yourself.
