Need Advice

I recently met this guy and we get along great. The only problem is he has a girlfriend. Yesterday we were just hanging out and he says "I wish I was still a single man" Tell me does this mean what I think it does? Does he like me too? I need your advice.

Thanks and Peace
[sharybobbins]

 

I hope you're not considering dating a guy who has a girlfriend... you know that's trouble. If he wants to hook up with you or anyone else, let him get out of that relationship first... because you know it's trouble if you're with a guy who's sharing his time with someone else....

 

Ya, and if he's considering you when he's still with her...? What's going to happen when you finally get him? I'd be wondering if the same thing would happen to me. It must be the weed, I never think paranoid

 

No, I am not considering dating a guy who already has a girlfriend, i just wanted to know if my thoughts were valid that he liked me. I guess am just tired of everyone else around me having a significant other. Well school is around the corner and I'll meet alot of guys then. Only like 8 weeks til school starts.

 

Obviously he likes you.

That is the reason I stay single; I do not want to have a relation when I meet the girl of my dreams.

 

Shary, you are gonna either get hurt or have trouble. One of you two is gonna be the dumpee and the other the fucken bitch who causes trouble. Be smart, dump the guy and find a single one.

 

I am not dating him. I haven't dated in like seven years. Is that pathetic or what? Then again, the only reason I haven't dated is because I haven't been asked sincerly out on a date. Only as a joke. I don't get it. There are girls who are real bitches and have boyfriends but I the nice girl haven't had one in a long time. I guess nice girls do finish last.

 

Describe the girl of your dreams.

 

nice girls or guys seldom get to finish at all....this is america land of assholes ...if you dont fit the mold ....you are recycled....ive tried being a callouse asshole and somehow peeps see through it and im still left wiyh the empty plate of the nice,,,,,,im only staying alive to see all theese nasty shitheads starve and suffer when the money system collapses....a mercifull death is too good for yuppie scum...slow agony ...yea !

 

he may like u.. or he may simply be saying he wishes he was a single guy again.. I know lots of my friends who are married who wish they were single and didn't have to be responsible to their kids/wives.. not that they are bad people.. it's just that they can remember what it was to be single.. I guess some people are better being loners..

now me.. I can't understand that.. when I fall in love with someone I really fall in love.. I want to spend every minute of every day with them and this isn't just for the first 6 or 12 months.. I love someone because she's everything I'm looking for in a lady.. passionate.. intelligent.. sensual.. and someone whom I can share what I love in life with and who can show me what I'm missing in life because of the passion she has for the things she loves.. how could I not want to spend as much time as I could with such a person?

and the best thing is? I think I've found her .

 

amy, id like to give you advice but when it comes to relationships i should keep my mouth shut bc im cursed in this area of life.

 

I have no idea at all, I hardly ever remember my dreams.

 

what he really means is, he knows it's me.

 

Now that you mention it, I did dream about you several times.

 

i knew it..... remember you dont have to tell me things, i just know.

 

We are connected through a mysterious thing called 'internet'.

 

no, i was thinking of another word, but whatever you wanna call it.

 

Do you mean a higher level of connection, like cable internet?

 

no, more like dsl....

 

Awesome, I always knew we connect on a high level.