i seem to hang out with more guys than girls, not sure why...it's just the way i am. but i definitly have to say that both my girlfriends and guyfriends are equally cool and fun to hang around.
I've always found it easier to relate to guys and get along with them a lot easier than I do with women, as I found girls to be evil and bitchy. When I was at school, most of my friends were male. Nowadays I have a nice mix of friends and I wouldn't change them for the world.
why do so many ladies say such derogatory things about other females? calling others "evil" or "bitchy" or whatever just perpetuates the things you dislike in those women. saying that women are catty (while excluding yourself) is, well, pretty damn catty, is it not? absolutes are bad for all of us! gender stereotypes are awful, and even on a subconscious level one might be colder to a girl than a guy, or more closed/standoff-ish, or perhaps even rude, especially upon first introductions. don't you ladies see how this attitude perpetuates the things you dislike about "other women"?
well said lawngirl!! i have friends of both sexes. i am closer to women as a rule (except for you zoomie dear). i have had women turn from me in friendship and i don't know why, but male friends have let me down before too.
I have always got on with girls better than with boys, I don't know why but it's more difficult to talk to them for me... But among my few best friends I have both female and male friends.
All my life I've always had a close group of girl friends(about 10 or so) that we were all inseperable. We talk about everything and we're always there for eachother. I've always had trouble getting guy friends because it takes me awhile to be myself with them. The guys I am friends with are the ones that I basically complain to. They also tend to make me feel better about myself. In my experience, you ask a girl how you look and she'll always answer "gorgeous" but if you ask a guy friend they'll actually tell you the truth(which is both good and bad) The bad thing about guy friends is developing crushes, I have trouble detaching myself from those feelings once they start.
im changing my answer lately ive had a blast with women but feel like i have deeper friendships with men. women are fun because you can kiss them and get a little freaky without it implying anything men give better advice but women are better listeners.
Im not going to sit here and say that females annoy me and I cant stand them cause Im a female and when people do that, I think it sorta makes them look a little stupid.. I am friends with whoever wants to be friends with me and who's company I enjoy.. I dont hang out with one sex more than the other.. I cant stand when women bash other women, saying catty things like, "women are annoying and I rather hang out with guys" Arent you a woman? I dont understand this whole females hating females...whats the deal with that.. I like anyone who can stand me...enough said...
I didnt see this, Lawngirl I agree with everything you said... I think girls put down other girls and dislike other females cause it all boils down to jealousy...