ok so after 2 years of liking this girl we finaly got together, we where in the libaray talking and she told me she liked me, i was so damn nervous i couldnt even tuch her, some how i finally i stoped acting like a moron and we started kissing then i just paniced and pushed her away,i told her i was too nervous then we started kissing again well me being the great guy that i am i pushed her away again,i told her i was sorry and she got mad so we left, i talked to her on the computar when i got home shes still realy made at me and i dont know what to do,she says we should just move on, i dont know what she means by this,i feel like a huge dick,i like her alot and i wasnt like i didnt like her kissing me becasue i did,alot,i know what people mean when they say i feel like im walking on air, now i dont know what to do or whats going to happen, yep im that good
all you can do is apologize, tell her you only did that because you were really nervous because you like her so much
it doesnt sound like a huge issue at all. All you have to do is apologize, although i would work on not being so nervous, i mean you two like each other, i think thats pretty comfertable to me. Whats nervous for me is liking a girl so much, and not knowing how she feels about me.
well i have anxeity disorder and im not trying to use it as an exuse for my actions but i cant handle stress at all, i just freak out,she thinks its something she did i told it wasnt and i said i was sorry but shes still realy sad,i think i pretty much blew it
from her point of view it can't have been good for her self esteem to be pushed away. she was probably as nervous as you and it probably didn't make her feel too good. actions speak louder than words. if you have already explained then maybe take her out or just arrange to spend a day hanging out with her so she knows it wasn't her and that you still like her.
yeah thats what i want to do but i dont think it will happen i talked to her today and asked her how she felt, she told me she didnt want to try being with me again,i dont think she ment it cause right after school she came up to me and starting talking to me and said that we will talk later,i still have no idea what to think,i just have to laugh at how dumb this all sounds
It sounds like neither of you know what's going on. Which is how things usually are when things are starting up. You haven't blown it yet, although you're close. Try to relax, and be honest with her about your feelings. Ask her if she feels comfortable taking things slow. That's what it sounds like you need. And she has to be responsive to your needs if things are going to work.
yeah she just kind of jumped it on me, im a realy shy guy and i dont talk much and its hard for me to say what i mean,and when i met her at the libaray i had no idea it would end up like that one secound we are talking the next shes all over me and im shaking like crazy
