I just had to videotape when my son's father picked my son up for the weekend. He (my son's father) told my grandmother that if he gets "one more call" from my neighbor that my son will be "gone" so now I gotta document everything damn shame a 37 year old acts so much like a fucking child
#1 - she calling his girlfriend and gossiping, not reporting about my son #2 - my son's father and his girlfriend used to live here (IN THIS APARTMENT) right before me so all of my neighbors are their friends #3 - no one should be subjected to the bullshit I've been through lately. I'm grown and have a right to privacy in my own home. She telling him that I got my hair done for my birthday, that guys come to my house (lie), what time my grandma leaves after watching the kids so truthfully, you don't know the situation
everyone has nosy neighbors. but that is some bullshit. youre right. i dont know your situation. i was just making an opinion based on the little information that i had.
hell yeah she is. But there is two of them. Neighbor #1 is the one that orginally called CPS. After everything happened, Neighbor #2 called my son's father and got him in my face. After CPS deemed me fit, N#1 called again and said that I let my children stay up 'til 1am and that I shouted at my 2 year to take his cough medicine. Note that this woman has never been in my house but knows all this? CPS told me about it and advised that I consider taking legal action against her. My grandma has been noticing her cigarette butts by my door for a couple months but I disregarded it cause I don't care. Now I know why, she stands outside my door, smokes her cigarettes and listens. N#2 is just a busybody trying to involve herself in something that doesn't have anything to do with her. But because my ex is an arrogant asshole in his own right, he's assuming the worse and nitpicking. He told my grandma that when he picked up my son (from playing outside) last time that my son's "fingernails were dirty" I'm dealing with a crazy, a nosy bitch, and a man that has never really taken care of a child on a day to day basis. Add my kids, work, school......I think I'm handling it well
Wow. They all sound miserable in their own right. I couldn't raise kids and do everything you're doing. That takes balls.....well that phrase doesn't really work in your case does it? Here we go. That takes ovaries damnit!
thanks....truth is, I just want us to be ok. In a house with a yard, not worrying about money. I only have a year of being here. Once I graduate and get a decent job, I'll be in place to defend myself legally. actually, their doing all they can do and that's talk. talk can't hurt me
close. I was 19, 21 when I got pregnant. I was under the illusion that a older man would be more mature. It took me awhile to see how controlling he was
I respect how well you have handled this. I must say, nosy neighbors are the most troublesome of them all. I have a few. They like to call the police on me whenever they can. For instance, my brother comes home from school, what do they do? Call the police. I can't stand people who get into other people's business. Now I do see it fit if the child is walking outside the door with a bruise or such other instances but this seems a bit too much. Like CPS said, take legal action. I know you probably don't have the financing to support legal action but I'd wait till I finish school and am ready to pursue something while I'm on my way out of that building. Give them a big middle finger to view.. No wait, that probably isn't the best image for legal court battles now is it? Either way, make the bastards mind their own business for the next neighbor.
yea that sucks that any thing you gain must be used to defend yourself ......i dont have kids ,,,ive cared for em and its insanity,,,,,dirty nails ...yaotta git a flippin medal for every hour ther alive and havnt killed anyone or destroyed shit ....kids are impossible , ya gots my medal fer bravery.
well i'm sorry for your drama..your da shit..you will come through this..as for him and his ghetto bitch...fuck them.
