How long do YOU wait before having sex with someone. I used to not wait at all, I'd shag someone after knowing them an hour or two. I dont think there is anything wrong with that, but at the moment it's not want I want to do. I'd wait about a month before sleeping with someone. (unless I was on holiday somewhere, rules and boundries tend to go out the window when your on holiday!)
in a relationship I usually wait 1-4 weeks sometimes longer, depending mostly on the girl.... But in a one night stand, well what can I say, I'm a guy.... I only need the time it takes to say 'Hey, wanna fuck?' tho it's never actually that easy, and if it was it would be boring too, so like you say a few hours
well yeah, when I don't have a gf... Or thats what I'd call it anyways, going to a party having some slurps of tequilla finding a girl, kissing her, hitting on her and then fuck her at some point and then drink some more afterwards... Casual sex I guess you could call it too =) Not that often tho, but it happens Hey, when not in a relationsship it's much better and easier than doing it yourself Besides I'm 17 in a month... yay me!!!
Wow, I'm sorry, but that's pretty disturbing. You're 22 years old and yet it sounds like you've been around the block more times than someone twice your age, maybe even more than that. *shudders* I mean, alright, I'm not exactly the "norm", the only person that I've ever had sex with is my husband, but it's really sad to hear of people treating sex so lightly, just going out and sleeping with anyone, anytime. Don't you care anything about yourself, and how these men see you?
[QUOTE Don't you care anything about yourself, and how these men see you?[/QUOTE] I have been around the block a few times. I don't regret it. At that time and that place, thats what I did. It's been done and I'm over it. Next time I have sex I want to wait awhile. But I don't think people that have one night stands don't care about themsleves.
Well, that's good that you want to wait awhile next time. I mean, I wasn't exactly trying to get on your case, even though I'm sure it did seem that way. My initial reaction was "what are you doing girl, have more respect for yourself!" and well, it just amazed me at how lightly you seemed to take sex. Course, I was raised in a very, very strict home when it came to sex, and I was literally scared to death of it. My husband had his work cut out for him in those early times. I guess we're all just different.
i don't think there's anything wrong with one night stands or sleeping with someone after you just met them (eek, that's how most of my relationships have started lol ) Humans are still animals ya know? And good things can definitely come from those situations~~~
when it feels right...when the moment is there and you feel you arent giving them a reason to disrespect you. it used to be if and when i was drunk but those days be long gone.
I've had a few one night stands...but completely my choice. eh. it all depends onthe person in my mind..but i like to decide when it happens..if I'm pressured at all, theres no way he's getting any
in the future at least three months. ive only slept with 3 people but two of those people i had sex with on the first night and i think guys have a higher level of respect for you if you wait and will treat you better because of it.
I've had sex 2 times, and both times it was with someone i had known for a few hours... But if i were really into a guy i would wait a few weeks (at the minimum) before having sex
Depends who it is. I never get drunk and then have sex with someone, but I think the longest I'd wait would be a month. If its someone who I've known for a while then sometimes you kind of get caught in the moment lol. But I think waiting a while is sometimes good. I mean, the only thing hotter than having sex, is not having it.
My poor husband! We DID have sex before we were actually married, but I made him wait a whole YEAR. *lol* Oh, we did a lot of playing, but the real stuff didn't happen until a year later. He never fails to remind me of how long he had to wait, considering his previous relationships where sex had happened almost immediately. But hey, he stuck around despite having a major case of "blue balls", we got married, we've been together for 9 years and have 3 beautiful kids. I tell him that old saying that goes "good things come to those who wait", and he had to agree on that.
At my age (52), it's much more fun when someone has the hots for me than the other way around. -- Skeeter
I don't really have a certain amount of time. I usually wait until I'm fully comfortable with sleeping with that person.
