Do looks really matter? Be honest!!

To me it all depends on the degree in which the person is not so...pretty.

What do you guys think?

 

i would say in general yes...

 

Of course they do. To an extent, at least.

 

Yes, alot.

 

Looks DO matter to a point. There has to be SOME kind of attraction there. Especially if you meet someone at a concert or bar or a place like that. There has to be SOMETHING about the person that makes you go up and talk to them or vice versa.

HOWEVER...for me...looks only go so far...if they aren't interesting, or intelligent, or have nothing else to offer me; No matter how attractive they are on the outside, they become unattractive to me in everyway.

But, yes...generally, looks DO matter.

 

I feel there needs to be physical attraction

 

Hehe, the 'looks doesn't matter' is like that 'size doesn't matter' thing, it is not true... I know that I myself talk in a whole other way to a hot chick than some *censored*

 

for me, they dont have to be superficially pretty, but there has to be something that draws me. like eyes or summat. i cant be with sum1 i dont find attractive.

 

In general, i'd say yes. If you're not attracted to that person once you've seen them, you're more reluctant to want to make an effort. However, lots of things can overpower these shallow feelings, like when you actually get to know a person. Most of the time the hot ones are knobbers and all the others are sweet.

 

I think its all about gettig a vibe.... Personally I dont look to see if a girl is pretty or not, I look too see if their looks can draw me into them.

 

Well since the term pretty varries from person to person, isn't it defined by if the persons look can draw you in to themin the first place???

 

Not really... Because there are many times where I can say a girl is pretty i.e. eyes, face structure, lips...etc, But im not attracted to them.

 

Oh yeah, thats right.... my bad

 

The Question: Do looks really matter?

The Answer: It's a guy thing.

Guys are obsessed with how people look all the time. They're always stimulated visually.

Want proof? Observe a guy perusing the on-line personals. Odds are, he'll routinely ignore the personals submitted by women that don't include a photograph.

-- Skeeter

 

Yes but they arent everything. I met a guy who was HOT HOT HOT. I was so wrapped up in how fucking atrractive he was that I moved in with him. My god what a mistake. Give me an average joe with a fab personality over Mr hot stuff but fucking annoying any day.

 

Looks certainly are not everything but it's nice to be attracted to the person you're with. Another thing to like about them

 

Looks of course do matter. But I hope you don't mean only face/body look. 'cause clothes are as important as face. For example a guy can be very nice at face, but you see he is wearing what you don't like - you'll not contact with him I think.. Do you?

 

It's the same for girls. But they are more obsessed with how they look.

 

Its people like you who give goodlooking people a bad name...
It might be shallow... But thats how it is.

Just because people choose to ignore not so goodlooking people, they blame all their bad experiences on the good looking persons so called good looks.

Dont blame him, blame youself. Next time try getting to know a person before making such a commitment.

Peace-

 

Maybe this is just a "human thing"?