hey, im 17 yrs old and in grade 12, recently i have begin to like this girl who in only in grade 9 but she has to be the most gourgeous and sweet girl i have ever met. Anyways, we talk quite often now at school but i cant seem to get her to hang out with me on weekends etc, cuz she says she is alwasy busy with sports or whatever. Anyways here is the real problem, i am kind of the wild type of guy who doesnt settle down much but i think i have finally found a girl that i could like really be myself around and just relax cuz she makes me feel like a different person when im around her and when im not around her all i do is think about her. I just cant get her out of my head. But the thing is that i really like her but im not sure if she likes me, she is always very nice to me when im around and we laugh with eachother all the time and joke about eachother but im not sure if i want to risk asking her out or if she just wants to be friends. Anyone have any suggestions as to what i should do in this situation
Well, I was in that scenario. I was the 9th grader in question. When he first started talking to me, I automatically assumed that he just wanted some bragging rights. I really am very jaded about guys. He, too, was the wild type of guy. The difference is that he WAS only in it to get some ass. If you really do think you've found somebody you can commit to, then I say you talk to her about it. Nothing too very serious; Just let her know that you have feelings for her, and that those feelings are genuine. You'll find out right away if she shares those feelings.
rape her! nah... better juz be the dick u r and confess it to her... what can happen? she can laugh at u and think u r pathetic... but ud know if she likes u or not good luck!
If somebody confessed that they liked me, I would hardly think they were pathetic. That's probably the most flattering thing anybody could say to somebody. Far more meaningful and less shallow than something like, "Wow, you're so hot" or comments along those lines. By the way, Slayer is fucking amazing.
hehe, in stuff like this I don't really think age matters... I felt the same way about a girl once and I too am a 'wild boy' who has been with my share of ladies. But it was different with this girl, she was my age and a sweet sweet virgin and I wanted her for actually anything but just sex. So I just kinda served her my heart on a silver plate, for her to take or to crush (after a few months of pulling myself together and getting rid of all excuses for not doing it). So she crushed my heart and left me half the 'man' I was before... Nah, just kidding she's my girl now and we love eachother beyond all else. So just go for it man, as toolmaggot said... Even if she doesn't like you in that way, chances are that she probably won't make fun of you or anything, and maybe it'll bring you even closer (as friends)
