I means I absolutely love being with him but we cant be alone for more than 5 minutes without his phone ringing....we cant go anywhere without having to drop something off....it gets old. But i like him to much to say anything....
get out... that's just not sounding healthy. What happens when he gets caught by the law? Why is his business so important that he can't turn off the cell for five minutes to genuinely devote his time to you. OK, maybe I'm reading too much into it, but there are better fish out there
But see hes not a bad person at all. If you saw him you would never even think that he did that. Not to mention he has never smoked weed in his life, he only sells it for the extra money. The only thing is it gets frustrating. Tonight after I wrote this post actually....we talked about it...well he talked about it. He said he hated that he had no privacy and that he was sick of all the people. He told me that he hated to deal with it. I told him that he should find a real job, although he does have one....he only gets like an hour and a half a day as a stocker. But I dont know maybe hell stop...
just in case he doesnt change carrears , and in general , maby you shouldnt document anyones specific illicet deeds or your knowdlege of them .
i'm sorry that sounds really sucky... i hope you guys can work around it or get rid of it. i mean, he's the hookup to these ppl, so they should be cool with leaving a message rather than demanding to talk to him immediately to get something, ya know?... well that's how i see it unless he's desperate to be making lots of money.. hmmm.... iiii dunno
it's not that hard to leave it and find a real job, if you are having troubles with some people when you try to leave jsut tell them the law is up your ass
I've been there myself. My ex was the same way. Not only were people calling all the time,but they would show up at his house,banging on the door at all hours of the night. Those people get desperate,when their stash is gone. I hated it. It was annoying..and not to mention,nerve racking. It wasn't just pot,he would deal anything. I don't mind being around that stuff,even though I had already stopped using anything myself. It's just knowing that if the cops show up,everyone is going down whether you're doing anything or not. People talk too much,and it's easy to get busted. I'm not saying your boyfriend is bad,not at all...what I am saying is,just be careful.
I can see where your coming from babe, my man is a bit the same... it does get old, and it seems so childish. Sure he could get a job and all, but its pretty unlikely that he will find a job as easy for the same amount of cash... its gonna be a hard road, but you can give it a try, just be patient with him, but if something happens that makes you feel too uncomfortable, get out.
I went out with a dealer, and it is hard - i didn't get on with most of her friends either, so it was always a bit awkward. But... There's no reason why you can't carry on a good relationship with him. Just talk to him about it and say to him everything that you think. May be you'll both be able to work out some 'free time' where nobody calls him and he turns his phone off..? It's not hard to work around, communication is the key Love, Sunny xxx
I don't know...I don't think it's a very good idea for you to be on one of his runs with him. If he gets caught by 5-0...you're in trouble too...even if you don't have anything on you. Just knowing about it and being there is enough to get you a few nights in jail and slapped with a big fine. If I were you, I'd say, do what you want, but don't take me along for the ride...literally.
hey girl. yeah that sucks. i do think you should say something, even though there may not be much you can do to change it im sure. one of my best friends was in a relationship with a dealer and she hated it too. ive never met him, but she was really into him and i dont think she ever really cared. maybe its cause he treated her like crap, cheating on her and whatnot. hes trying to get back into her life now, and she hates it. speaking of, i think the majority of my guy friends from last summer deal now, and the way i dealt with it was just not talking to them anymore, though i still have guy friends who deal. my other best friend who went out with a dealer never had a problem with it and i didnt even know for a while cause they spent alot of time together, but like at 1am to like school started and whatnot.
I totally understand where you're coming from. I feel bad for you. I vowed to never let someone who's into that get too close to me again. It's such a hassle and you have to put up with so much bullshit. I'm sure you know the risks and everything so no lectures here. If you aren't willing to ask him to stop, then as much as it sucks- there's really nothing you can do but complain. I hope for the best for you.
