hey everyone I am really fascinated by this guy....... I know him, but then i dont........ Havent had really a conversation with him, but yet i have....... Which was like a long time ago... He knows who i am and i know who he is type thing.... But when i see him in the park or something i want to go and talk to him but i am scared to, or maybe just shy...... I am sooooo intrigued by him!!! Even tho i hardly know him.... So its a weird concept..... But anyways how do i overcome this fear??? I know he is a shy guy or quiet.... And that is how i am when i really like a guy...... I know where he hangs out at this coffee shop but i really really dont like going there, feels like everyone stares at me when i go in.... I really want to get to him before it is too later but i dont know the first step Please give some guidance thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! star
there have to many opportunitys i have given up to be with someone just because i was to shy to talk to them. Someone has to make the first move, or else nothing will ever happen. Just go up and talk to him, get to know him more, he probably wants to know you just the same. If not, there are always others, and also you have more experience and you probably wont be as shy
i usually pick out some detail and use that as an opener - like, what book are you reading? or, hey i love those shoes. that kind of stuff.
beautifulhippie2 had it right ... Just Do it. (tm) Seriously, the more time you think about it, the tougher it's going to be. Just *smack* yourself, belch really loud, stomp a few times, and charge in there! =P :H Seriously, it'll work.
Realise that you have power over him that you couldn't even dream of. Go over there and find out why you're so fascinated with him. Once you've figured that out, change him completely so he doesn't fascinate you anymore.
thanks guys!!!!!!!!!!!! I saw him last night at his brother's house.... He is an artist check him out... www.leifkolt.com I felt to awkward to talk to him tho, there was too many people there...........
I like how u said he intrigued you, Thats usually when i know im attracked to a girl, when i wanna find out what makes her gears spin... I'd straight up tell him that his personality intrigues you, and that u'd like to spend time getting to know the real him...
