What is love?

By your own unique definition, what is love?

 

a song by haddaway

 

the willingness to put the life, pleasure, wellbeing and wholness of another before yourself to the point of your own destruction to preserve them.......

 

Fuck it.

 

Love is feeling like your on cloud 9, for every moment you exist you just want to stay up there among the clouds.

 

I'm not exactly sure...

 

it's a loss of rationality in your feelings, your views on life and on yourself.
greg

 

I know it can hurt lots!

 

most of the time a false illusion but sometimes its the true belonging

 

love is something that other people have to make me feel bad

 

confused 'unconscious' selfishness

 

I'm not sure if anyone can actually define a feeling in words. But it is the most amazing, frightening, frustrating, confusing, uplifting, all-consuming thing i've ever felt.

 

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Oh, baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

 

getting a blowjob every day for the rest of your life without having to beg for it.

 

It's a chemical reaction in the brain.

 

Love is when your partner can tell you, you have a booger sticking out of your nose and they kindly get it for you cause you cant seem to...
Love is when your partner tells you you need some gum..
Love is when they can tell you that you look like shit when they ask how you look and you agree you look like shit as well...
Love is when you can laugh at eachother and make fun of eachother playfully..
Love is when you can debate about an issue without taking it to a whole nether level..
Love is not playing games its just being honest and telling your partner what you really want and how you really feel, instead of playing guessing games..
Love is wipping your partners ass when they are physically unable to do it themselves cause of either age or injury..
Love is being through hell with your partner and still remain a very strong bond with your partner...
Love is just not a feeling but a connection, an understanding that this person gets me, that they understand me and like me for it (that probably doesnt make sense)

 

I've been wondering this myself, lately. I've only had two big loves, and they were both in the past year. Both guys reciprocated the feelings, but one was too old for me and one has a girlfriend of over two years. None of us are daring enough to take the plunge and risk anything for each other, but does that mean our love is not true?

 

love is bullshit

 

Love is careing enough to be careless about what other people think... And lots of other stuff I can't think of

As a wise man once said:

Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it oepns up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.

 

keep dreaming! It's mostly a fucking pain in the ass! It would be really nice if people treated each other right. But they seldom do. Just my experience.