casual sex and pornography

Applause once again Maggie. I agree wholeheartedly! Very well said.

 

that makes no sence...

 

well, let me put it this way. if i have no sexual interest in a girl it makes me too antisocial around them. right now at the moment i haven't been looking at porn because i'm in a nihilistic state. i'm havin some personal problems, but i don't feel like talking about them right now. i can say this though. For some reason love has seemed to perished to me. i find that a lot of people in my town are looking for sex and good looks instead of intellegence and personality. the material world seems useless to me. my idea of a romantic screen play would be for me to go off and live in the woods with a chick whose about had it with the material, like myself. i'll post more about the subject later.

 

I hope you can find Love, joker. Sometimes the best way to do it is to become as selfless as possible, even to the point of pain. You can stand up for yourself, of course, but I have found, when lonely, that selflessness (which comes not easily to most of us) is the best way to Love.

My prayers that Love will find you.

Blessings.

 

Thank You

 

Ive been out of the single scene for a long time now, but casual sex anymore is like playing russian roulette. Now you are not only sleeping w/this person but w/every person they ever slept with. If I had to be back into the single scene again, I would be like the Gestapo, Who were you with, What diseases have you been screened for, Have you been screened, How many partners have you had?? Tell me . Tell me everything!!! by the time I finished w/the Questions they would be gone and I would be in the cold shower!!! But, on your sec. ques. Porn is great!!!

 

quote: Now you are not only sleeping w/this person but w/every person they ever slept with.

I've always thought this phrase made no sense at all. No your not, your just sleeping with them.

 

Yes you are technically sleeping w/that person only, but any or all the things they got from someone else is now being given to you!!!

 

No thats logically not true, for one thing you are only sleeping with one person, which isn't the same as sleeping with 15.

Another thing, they may have slept with say 2 people who had some type of VD, and maybe 0 to 1 of which passed said VD onto them, then you have the same odds of getting it from them....its not the same as sleeping with 2 people that have vd.

Another thing, its not really a cumulative thing, either the person has vd, or they don't..

 

Logically sex = lots of diseases

 

Maggie Sugar. loved whatcha had to say. right on!

seamonster66, symantics...if they slept with 15, you have now taken the same risks as they have to some degree, with or without your knowledge.

I feel kinda sorry for the kids these days, so many are jaded about sex it seems. Nothing new under the sun and they are only 20 and if they haven't done it, they've seen it...ho-hum! *yawnz*

I'm glad I grew up when I did, sex never killed yah back then and I was a crazy wanton child for awhile but then I realized the shallowness of sex without love (indoor sports) and grew from there. I do have porn. I enjoy pics, the movies are too stupid and men oriented, but thats to take the edge offa screaming horemones (whoresmoanin) inbetween relationships these days when my imagination isn't enough. I think the porn industry is shit however and sad to see so many lil girls that aspire to be lil porn queens. Shame they can't get enough love and adoration any other way in their minds.

 

quote: seamonster66, symantics...if they slept with 15, you have now taken the same risks as they have to some degree, with or without your knowledge

Exactly, Semantics, why make such a slogan if its not true...why not just say you might get VD if you have sex instead of this flawed catch phrase.

It simply isn't true....kind of in the same category as some of the anti-marijuana propaganda.

 

I agree with this. Casual sex can be fun, especially if practiced in a safe manner and not done too frequently. And porn can be not only fun but educational.

 

I agree with ya on porn, but I'd like there to be some love in sex. That's why i could never go through with scoring when I had the chance to get laid.

 

seamonster66...its a way to sum up the risk you are taking and it makes the point quickly and well. If I had unprotected sex with someone that had sex with multiple partners I am indeed taking the same chances that ALL of those partners were disease free, not a percentage of them, whether they have nothing, have the same disease, whatever. Just like Russian roulette is only played with a single bullet, the six chambers still play a big part.

 

I think that as long as both people know that all it is is casual sex, then there isnt anyhting wrong with it. But if one person isnt clear on what it is then it becomes a huge emotional mess.

Porn isnt bad either, just a matter of personal opinion and preferance.

 

quote: If I had unprotected sex with someone that had sex with multiple partners I am indeed taking the same chances that ALL of those partners were disease free, not a percentage of them, whether they have nothing, have the same disease

You are wrong, you are taking a chance that the person you are with may have it, it doesn't matter if they slept with someone ten years ago who did, but they didn't get it.

Its a cliched phrase that should go.

 

The point you refuse to see, acknowledge, agree with, ect, that promiscuity does increase your chances of disease. I agree they should spend more attention to the fact that its ALL a risk to have unprotected sex.

 

I GET that, obviously.

I'm just saying the phrase is flawed, and it is, its a catch phrase that people in this slogan filled country think up all the time.