My girlfriend of one month called me a hypocrite and said im living in self denile and when I told her that she doesnt even know me to judge me and asked for her reasons she said that she has none. So I said that if shes not going to finish off something she starts she shouldnt start is in the first place coz thats a weakness. Now she is upset and said that im too harsh on her.
How old is this girl? Which that's not really an excuse,but that just sounds silly to me. You haven't even been together very long,and she's saying negative things about you with no reason at all. Then she gets upset when you comment back...that doesn't sound good,mature,or very healthy.
Sometimes i might come accross as being rude because I speak a bit harshly and firm because im not a lovey dovey person but Im always there for her when she needs a shoulder. It seems as thou shes cant handle it. She says i like to play mind games, and never give straight answers and I confuse her. But maybe I do give straight answers but she just doesnt seem to understand them and thinks that im playing games. Shes a very judgmental person and she creates incidents in her head as in she twists what I say into a negative meaning and trys to justify it by questioning me. Ive told her what she does is very immature and that she should try thinking more positively about the things i say instead of thinking the worst. Instead She choses to hang up the phone in my face and Her excuse was, well I think of the worst so when I see the worst it wont hurt as much..I mean, I dont understand what shes trying to get at. And yesterday she was talking about how shes falling for me and doesnt want me to leave because shes going to miss me. When she asked me the same thing, I just said I like spending time with you. Well now I have realised that its not going to work, plus im leaving abroad for 3 months...
And the otherday I called her a whore in a polite way, because she was talking about how she used to flirt with bouncers to get into clubs for free. And i said you were using your sexuality against a mans sexuality to get into a club and giving the bouncers a glimpse of sex so that makes you a whore ( I didnt exactly use the word whore) and then she froze and played dumb as in "Oh, i didnt know they wanted sex or thought that way". So then i told her to stop playing stupid too... she didnt take it very well.
