i wanna be held

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by joker, Jun 18, 2005.

  1. emilie

    emilie Member

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    I can relate... I prefer just being with someone and being held by them, rather than having sex.
     
  2. Crayola

    Crayola =)

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    *hugs everybody*

    it makes me sad. stop it now..
    *hugs*
     
  3. PurpleGel

    PurpleGel Senior Member

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    it's too bad you think it's bullshit. because it's not. i have never had women enter my life while i was believing that the universe is bullshit/mean and that things should happen whenever i want them. that attitude will keep you single forever. but, i noticed that when i just gave up--surrendered--to whatever external forces that are operating in our lives, love would come right to me. it's work more than once for me. in fact, it works every damn time. i don't care how long people have been single--years, whatever i've been there. but people have to stop focusing on negativity and start sending out positive energy. what you put out is what you'll get in return.

    i suggest you rethink your theory and hopefully you'll chill out and the universe will do its magic. it's not your choice anyway; just let shit happen as it does.

    best wishes.
     
  4. Moon Water

    Moon Water Rena

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    you think thats hard i have never even been kissed before :(
     
  5. empathy

    empathy Member

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    get a huge teddy bear to cuddle with?
     
  6. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    You know, Kitten's right. You really do never know what's around the corner. Get up, get out, meet people! You don't necessarily have to go out looking for someone...they might just find you. Case in point, a few weeks ago, I was starting to get really bummed out and lonely, then out of the blue, a guy I had talked to just a little bit at small parties my friends have had called me and we just started hanging out, now we're inseperable. Sometimes things just happen, but if you don't put forth a little effort to at least make yourself available (i.e.- coming out of your house and just going out), you won't get any results. Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself, get out there and do something about it. If you can't find anyone right away, just be patient. Give it time, good relationships can't be forced.
     

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