I know i will generate a lot of heat from this thread if anyone reads it but i seems so parallel to my promblems You how they say pot the gateway drug to doing harder drugs like coke (through i don't really belieive this it kind of can be true) Want i'm feeling is the frist explivit sex thing i've done out of the "norm" was what i did with more my frist boyfriend. After that this whole thing went out of order and now my ex boyfriend and my ex girlfreind are together and he took her virginity. And now i was very close to rape, still have that feeling lingering around every interaction, i had a new rise in incest actions and feelings with males, females, and prepuberty relationship. I just saying maybe someone who is gonna do all things maybe a frist sign is bi ness. I'm not saying being gay has done this to me, just saying that i was destined to be but in these situations and gayness is the frist stop on a road to promblems if you're going to these promblems just post what you feel about my statment
That might have been a controversial post if I could even understand what the crap you were talking about
i was kind of out it anyways when i wrote it and it doen't matter becuse even though i got the idea in my head figure out now to wirte it i don't think i meant it i'm just a little frustrated
maybe it's just that nce you find your sexual "niche", then you feel like seeing what else you are into? i personally reckon it's a male thing rather than a gay thing - the whole tesosterone-driven sex urges.
Gayness may have possibly been a "gateway" for Sininabin, but it hasn't been a gateway for me. I've been gay as long as I can remember, and I have had no temptations toward rape or incest or anything else that could be seen as "alternative" sex or a sexual "problem."
Ditto here. As for pot, that's as far as I went in that direction too. (On the west coast, pot is usually no big deal.) Anyway, this whole gateway business is bullshit. Using the same kind of logic, you could claim that Big Macs are a gateway to meth addiction, child molesting, serial killing, and only god knows what else. (Hmmm... maybe we're onto something here! LOL) SageDreamer, I've seen many of your other posts, and you're usually right on!
it could also been said the other way around, if you were gay and then went hetro, and things fucked up. Its not the gender of people but more what they do as individuals...