just a thought... settle this argument

if a guy likes it up the butt, does that mean he is gay? as in like, not nessarary a dick, but like a dildo? me and a friend are having an argument about it.. i say that just because a guy likes it up the butt DOESNT make him gay, he just likes the way it feels.... but my friend says that yes, that makes the guy gay because thats how gays fuck...

gimme your input guys...

 

If a guy likes it in the butt then im sure it makes him happy when it happens, so ya. It makes him gay. Not a sure sign he is into guys though.

 

IMO it doesn't make them gay.. Some men like masturbating while having a finger/whatever stuck up their ass..

 

Gayness is more like a continuum, some people are more gay than others. Don't bother confining yourself or others to labels.

 

lesbians eat eachother out. if a girl enjoys being eaten out, does that mean she is a lesbain?
obviously not. your friend is stupid

 

Very good point,Dangermoose. I agree..

 

hmm a finger probably not but a dildo possibly I dono that just seems queer to me

 

It doesn't make him gay. Gay guys usually do oral anyway.

 

Of course not! You'd be surprised to know how many straight guys love to have their wives or girlfriends fuck them up the ass with a strap-on.

Conversely, you'd be equally surprised to know that there are a lot of gay and bi guys (myself included) who can't stand even the thought of getting fucked up the ass and won't hesitate to say "NO!"

-- Skeeter

 

No, doesn't make him gay and yes, its supposed to feel really good. I haven't done it myself, nor do I plan on it. But I'm not going to say never, either. Just the idea hasn't apealed to me lol - though no one is going to strap one on and do it to me as Skeeter suggests lol. That's not gonna happen

 

no, anus has many nerve endings and much pleasure can be derived from it, w/ girls I hear if they have both holes at once the orgasm faster, its not at all gay.
also prostate is in anous and that makes u come if you press it.

 

yes every man can potentially enjoy recieving a prostate massage. Anatomically, the man's g spot is located up his ass... so I'm thinking that every man can potentially enjoy anal stimuation. I think that people who know that and dont want to try are simply not in peace with their sexuality and are trapped between the pre conceptions of society.
I'm actually one of them...
greg

 

yes every man can potentially enjoy recieving a prostate massage. Anatomically, the man's g spot is located up his ass... so I'm thinking that every man can potentially enjoy anal stimuation. I think that people who know that and dont want to try are simply not in peace with their sexuality and are trapped between the pre conceptions of society.
I dont think it's gay to enjoy anal stimulation...Gay men, lust over guys, feel attracted to them sexually, a gay man isn't just one who uses a dildo or his fingers up his ass.
greg