do you girls care if a guy has a job or not

as funny and true as it is, I'm serious.

Let's talk about people's opinons about whether or not employment has anything ot do with being attracted to people.

 

forget you

 

For women, sure employment does.

"Yeah, well, I don't want no haircut nor to shave. I just want the free money and to smoke weed". Yeah, there's a real winner for you.

 

Haha that always happens heady, I didn't mean for that message to come up directly under yours it was intended for Wynter.

 

no I knew who it was intended for. again, funny and true, but her crap is getting old and I don't want to listen to it anymore


anyway... I think if a guy is just lazy or disruptive, than it might have an effect on how serious I got with him

if it was Joker (just as an example) I wouldn't push him to work, I would want him to get help and take the time he needs to get in a position to funcion normally. I think someone suggested working at home and I think that's a great idea.

I can't stand dealing with the public. I used to come home crying because I just wasn't stable enough to do it, and do it well. I did it anyway, because I had to, but I shouldn't have.

 

i don't have remorse about living off the government or the usa because it's the most injustice, oppressive, racist, homophobic nation in the world. seroquel will knocki your ass out more than kind bud will in my opinion. i had to go on homeschool my senior year because i couldn't wake up to make it to school on time my junior year. most of the people in my mental health program don't ever get off SSI. Only 10% do. same thing goes with people staying out of prison. prisoners return cause they can't find a good job that will keep them from doing something illegal cause no one wants to hire an ex-convict. so why should i care of living off people who work hard in the US. They've been nothing but biggoted assholes to me for believing in diversity and being anti racist/homophobic. and i don't care if any of you believe me cause i have nothing to prove to you. i don't need to belong to some bullshit clique. just for the record i'm not talking about shab, headymoechick, or deadsilince. if you want proof that i live in apts run by a mental health service get your ass out to my state and ask rediscover mental health for my records.

 

I don't think you should have to defend yourself, Joker. If you're on meds that knock you out, it could be DANGEROUS to work!

I don't blame you. Shit, if I could mooch a little I would. I can't even get health insurance right now. I was told I would be better off it I quit my job. what bullshit...

What about the GUYS... does it change your perspective of a girl of she doesn't or cant work?

 

You can ask for persons health records????

It wouldnt make a difference to me. If I was to share my life with someone I would be willing to make comprimises and sacrifices to make our lives together comfortable and if that means I have to go out and work two or three jobs so be it. Love is Love.

 

RE: i don't have remorse about living off the government or the usa because it's the most injustice, oppressive, racist, homophobic nation in the world.

It isn't cool to "live off" anyone. The USA isn't a faceless money pit but individuals including the tax contributions of people like headymoechick. And do NOT start about this "I'm entitled because of being persecuted" garbage. Which is what it is. Listen pal, for all the negative things that come with being in ANY ethnic group/gender etc. there's just as many positives. You just gotta play the hand you're dealt. And saying I'll just sit around my apartment all day is not playing your hand, it's being a social parasite.

RE: seroquel will knocki your ass out more than kind bud will in my opinion. i had to go on homeschool my senior year because i couldn't wake up to make it to school on time my junior year.

Go to bed earlier and get on different meds. I don't know what your mental problems are, but depression - come on. Cheer up and get on with life. Maybe if you got a haircut a shave and a job you wouldn't be sitting around moping all the time.

RE: so why should i care of living off people who work hard in the US. They've been nothing but biggoted assholes to me for believing in diversity and being anti racist/homophobic.

Oh, really. So everyone in the US is this way?

 

Look pal I didn't name one specific race or gender that was biggoted towards me. it was all kinds of people that were. you ain't on meds or ever been through what i've been through so shut the fuck up cuntface.

 

i respect others point of views....no hard feelings.....no neg ....postive...please.....i just got pissed because i go through the same things....

 

Joker this thread has been clean so far, please don't turn it into some immature name calling thing.

 

the disibility would be bi-polar you ignorant hick!

 

sorry man, irongoth just pissed me off.

 

joker i thought you was having company .....

 

Yeah he ruffles some feathers, but its much more therapeutic to express your thoughts with words that have meaning rather than hurling shit from trees (but that would be fun).

 

well, now that this has turned completely immature and selfish, I'm done...

 

what has?

 

I'm confused.

Aren't most hippies NOT interested in having a job? Any girl that's going to put up with a hippie guy is most likely a hippie themselves. So I don't see how any hippie girl could care if the hippie guy had a job or not. Otherwise, they would just be a hypocrite wannabe hippie and wouldn't be a good match for the hippie guy anyway.

 

well a job helps ......haha ..hypocrite? what? omg .....hahaha .....you have the wrong idea of a hippy