You think women are confusing!? HA!

So I met this guy at school a few months ago and we hit it off right from the start. About three weeks after I met him we started hanging out all day, every day. I always got the friend-vibe from him and never really thought any differently. Now that spring quarter has ended, we've spent every night (with the exception of this one) together until 2, 3, 4, 5am, and I'm starting to feel differently. He's made dinner for me, we've gone to the movies, we've gone hiking... etc. etc.

Now I've developed feelings for him but I have NO IDEA how he feels about me. He is usually the one to initiate a "hang-out" and it seems that he's always finding ways to touch my shoulder here, or my hand there. When we watch movies at home, we end up lying inches away from each other, but not quite touching (which is akward). Everything he does, reads to me as flirting EXCEPT when he makes comments about how motherly I am. Yes, we are like two 12 year olds. Maybe I should just pass him a note, "Circle Yes or No."

Anyway, I just wanted to bitch about it really. I can't make a move because he's extremely conservative (morally)... no kissing unless in a committed relationship, that type of thing. He is constantly asking me questions about how relationships work and sexual acts and whatnot, so I know it's on his mind when he's talking to me, but ldfkjdafn!

I don't want to think about it anymore! Good day.

 

Well it definitely sounds like flirting to me. I'd say it's a safe bet he's interested. Might as well go with the note, could be just the thing.

 

Yeah, he's totally into you haha

I only know of 2 girls out of all of my friends that I talk to about sex and such and we're just friends...other than that, my other friends who are girls, we just stick to the basic small talk...except for when I read their cosmo magazines and laugh haha...but aside from like joking about sex, I only talk seriously to those 2...and my girlfriend....so that should tell ya haha

But yeah, he's into you...I say go with the note, and if he's got a sense of humor, he'll think it's cute and circle yes (and he'll mean it too)

Good luck!

 

^^those two lines are kinda contradicting each other.
its like u're sayin : "im 100% sure that if a guy talks about thex to a girl he's into her.
but i have two friends i talk to about thex and im not into them"..
eeeh ok.

i dont think u can be 100% sure that guy wants u. i have many friends with which i hang out all the time and we talk about everything and we have no romantic interest in each other. u cant know for sure someone wants u unless u make a move. so yea, do the "circle yes/no" thing, lol

 

Lmao,good thread

 

That's exactly what I think. I don't really have any female friends, so I go to dinner with all my friends, eat at their houses for dinner, go to the movies, etc. So I've never been conditioned to identify the difference between friend relationships and boyfriend relationships. This one feels different, but I'm still unsure, obviously.


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