Well, there's this chick that I went out with for a while, we started out just being sort of makeout buddies, but then we actually started somewhat of a relationship. Near the end of May she decided that she didn't want to have to deal with a boyfriend anymore, but since then she's been inviting me to go all these places with her and she's been wanting me to call her all the time. So now my usual routine before I go to bed is call her at 2 in the morning and stay on the phone with her until one of our phones dies. I ask her alot during the convesation if she wants to go to sleep but she says that she wants to stay on the phone with me, making a point to put emphasis on the "with you" part, and every time before we hang up she says "I love you". Also, today we were sitting outside of a store under an overhanging thing because it was raining and we didn't want to get soaked, and she just reached up and grabbed my hand, and then put her other hand on the inside of my leg. When she broke up with me I had suggested to her that we just go back to how it was before we actually started going out and just be really close friends, but she said that she gets too attached. I'm not sure if she was doing it because she was feeling sorry for me because she saw my arm(I was a cutter up until a couple of days ago so the scars were there and some of the scab things on the cuts were still on them) I still like her a lot but I'm really not sure what I should do, any advice would be much appreciated.
well it sounds to me like u need to ask her what she wants. Maybe she is just as confused as u are about the situation. Has anything happened with her since u guys broke up?
Not really, she went to Arizona for a couple of weeks and when she got back I went somewhere with her and she spent pretty much the whole time clinging to me and telling me how much she missed me. Last night when I called her I asked her about it and asked her if she still liked me and she told me that she really didn't know, so talking to her doesn't really work that much with her, but that's sort of something that I had already figured out...oh well, I guess I'll just have to sit around and wait for her to decide how she feels.
ahaha good luck with that man, i has the same thing happen with my friend it ended up turning into a huge mess and im still confuised about whats going on,it ended up turning into almost a year untill she disided how she felt then in a week she changed her mind cause i fucked up,now im back to the begining,hope you have better luck then me
