rent is due and i don't have the money.:& i've been looking for a second job without much luck. i always seem to get myself in these sort of situations. i can't break the cycle.
can you not borrow it from your parents or do you have enough crudentials that you could get a loan from the bank or something?
i dont want this to sound mean or anything but if rent is due each month at the same date, and you know you have to pay it each month at the same time, how do you not have it..ya know what i mean...
ahaha.. borrow from my parents? my mother that never has any money but just got back from a cruise to alaska.. my dad that never has any money but just bought a new house.. and just got back from a trip to aruba. no.. i don't even ask them for anything anymore. my own fault really.. my now exboyfriend was living with me... i was paying the bills.. he was paying rent.. i planned on staying home during the summer .. MAINLY to watch HIS kid... he decided to go back to his exwife about two weeks ago.. leaving me stranded.. i'm too trusting of other people. so basically i've decided.. fuck everyone else. i'm gonna do what i need to do even if it screws other people over, because thats what others always do to me.
see, you should never rely on anyone to pay anything unless their name was on the lease cause in the end it will screw you and it sounds like it did... im sorry, guy sounds like a shit but you must learn from this and never rely on others to pay for things that are in your name, ya know...
yeah i agree.. i'm stupidly trusting of others:& i really don't know what else i can say.. except i'm just done being trusting.. i feel now that even if i should trust someone.. i just can't and shouldn't.. ever
Go back and live with your parents then I have a sister who is 30 who moved back home. Then she bought a Lotus Elise Got no money my arse.
blah.. living with my mother? i honestly think the homeless shelter would be more inviting. we don't get along at all when we live together. i think i'm more mad at myself than anyone.. i should have done something to revent this from happening.. but i didn't think it would.. so now what? only thing i can do is go talk to the landlord (i'm having terrible aniexity about doing so) keep looking for a second job and hope i don't get evicted.
do you live in a state where governmet services are provided like the Family Indepent Agency? check out your resources many places will be able to help you with rent, check the phone book, and start calling agencies like the salvation army or something like that. hope every works out for ya!
thanks yes i'm on the section 8 waiting list, have been for 4 years now. so i can't even rely on that. i think maybe if i had a second job i'd be okay, but i need to go to college and get some skills in order to be able to get a decent second job. i have 3 kids. minimum wage just doesn't cut it. college registration i guess started today, i just found out from a friend so i need to go there tomorrow. kick me in my ass please!
i went and talked to the landlady and then gave her 200 dollars.. pretty much all i can spare right now without over drawing my bank account. she said to get the rest to her when i can. rawr! no one has kicked me yet..
